yesterday me and my girlfriend planned on getting drunk today, i called her up earlier today to setup the time and everything and she tells me that one of her friends(her ex g/f, my g/f is bisexual) is jealous of me for some reason and asked my g/f to go to the movies today, and my g/f said she doesnt really want to go with her but feels obligated and she said she'll call me later on today to drink.......i could just be being stupid and sensitive but i think its ****ed up on my g/f's part to make another plan after me and her already had plans, even though she is gonna call me later today.....

so i was wondering, should i just go drink with her later today and shrug it off or wen she calls me should i tell her i made other plans or i just dont feel like drinking anymore?

In situations like that if I listen hard enough my gut tells me what's right.

You've got to dig a little deeper in the well if you want a good cool drink of water.
Thank-you Doc Watson! eheh
Cheers! Ian.

I'm pretty sure that Ian's advice is spot on.
Dissociate your head from your gut, and check out what feels right.
Thinking excessively about such issues will probably only serve to confuse the issue.

SB.

Ok. I have to say .. this is a very complex issue. I believe relationships are genuinly harsh when just one on one but when one is bi it can be even more so. I know from experiences with friends and thier relationships as bisexual people.

I really think you should do as you really feel. The sensitive you can be just overwhelming to be honest. If we all went with pure emotions then we would litterally be screwed...but that is just my personal opinion. We have to assess the situation and get into what is really going on in our own mind and what we feel is rational. *mind you being ADD is not going to help* (lol)

But really, if this entire situation has taken your wanting to go out to drink with her just don't because you are just going to feel resentment the entire time and just want to blurt out what is obvious while she is in your presence and it can all go the entire opposite of what you would have really wanted.

All in all, I hope this gets just better for you. I understand on her part if she is trying to be a friend to the ex but that is also a fault of many of us. We care just too damn much and it causes interferences to our most important aspects...

Take care and hope to have helped.
again.. my personal opinion only..