pittguy578
02-13-05, 08:35 PM
I have gone into a super depression the last half of this week:( I am not sure if it is job related or not. I just got a 10% raise within the last week, but I could really care less at this point. I feel like no one will ever love me again, and I feel like I am not living up to my potential. I really don't feel like going into work tomorrow
Well your not the only one who doesnt feel like going into work
I think thast is just a natural ADD thing
and we all love ya
Overload
02-13-05, 10:15 PM
Sorry you're feeling depressed, pittguy578. A 10% raise is nothing to sneeze at but I'm wondering why you're feeling that no one will ever love you again. I guess you recently broke up with someone? Try not to think that way, guy. Give it time, things are bound to get better.
If things are really tough though, don't hesitate to see your doc about an anti-depressant. You don't have to suffer a deep dark depression. Hang in there, pittguy.
pittguy578
02-13-05, 11:16 PM
It's just been a rough last 6 months. I had a wonderful girlfriend that I thought I was going to marry. Things started going south when I started hating my job, and that spilled over into our relationship. I blew up on her a few times over something stupid, and then things fell apart..we drifted.. I have been on a few dates, and nothing has panned out..
I feel like this job situation has really taken over my life. I am so beaten down that I don't know if I can realistically start another one right now. I feel kind of stuck. I guess I am in a state of learned hopelessness:(
cameron
02-14-05, 05:45 PM
Pitt, sorry to hear about the troubles...try living with a girl and then she dumps you and then have to live with here 3 more months while not every talking and she is dating another guy! not trying to downplay your situation though..just remember there are ALWAYS people who have it worse than you do...you have a job right? do you have your own place? can you pay your bills? there are TONS TONS of people who wish there were in your shoes....look, forget about women! most are a bunch of troublem anyway! there are always ways to take care of yourself..:)! try not having a full time job in over 3 years that lasted over one month! and also getting dumped twice! Hope things improve on your end..don't like to see anyone struggling. I know all about it. ADD or not....life is a lot about being in the right place at the right time and having breaks go your way..things will get better man!
cameron
02-14-05, 05:46 PM
ahhh, sorry about the terrible grammar and writing everyone..I had an ADD impulse moment, typing my last response.
Heidi-S
02-17-05, 07:31 PM
Two good things, dude : -
You can still get dates.
You can still work.
Not a lot of consolation, I know - but sometimes, it's good to count your blessings.
Don't fret, stuff's always turning up.