Hi,

I read your reply under my post and just had to respond. I don't know much about ADD but I can tell as a wife of a recovering alcoholic/addict and a recovering addict myself it sounds to me like your husbands drinking problem should be dealt with first. Whether it's ADD or alcoholism he's dealing with he has to be the one to make the choice for help. I can tell you that forcing him into it won't work. Been there, done that! You both have to be ready to change your ways. Check out a few Alanon meetings. If you've never been I can guarantee it will be a real eye opener. The key is learning to take the focus off your husband and put it on you. I could go on and on but the bottom line is you have to decide what is acceptable to you in your life and what is not. Then go from there.

Best wishes!

harmony :)