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sarahsweets
04-14-14, 05:51 AM
I have been meaning to write about this for awhile and My doctor has said she has a number of bipolar patients experience this.

What has developed in me over the past year are these fugue states. Let me explain.
It tends to occur either during a phase of rapid cycling in which I am flipping from hypomania to depression rather quickly. It has also occurred during extended periods of one or the other. What do I mean by mental fugue?

Its like I behave in a way that can seem like I am slightly impaired or not and things like circumstances or conversations and decisions are made with me having no knowledge of it. Christmas was a prime example. My foggy memory of it was that it was a good christmas. My mother an brother were distant in the days to follow and I couldnt figure out what was wrong. They had a sit down with me and told me that at times my coordination was off, like I was drunk and I was combative, loud and seemingly confused at times. My brother is gay and I gave him a beautiful necklace and apparently during the day with family visiting I would holler across the room something like:
" Sam do you like your necklace? I mean its not too gay right? I wouldnt want it to be too gay for you"
I proceeded to ask other family members if they thought it was too gay. I spilled oj all over someone and cursed big time in front of my kids and was altogether inappropriate. I know this has happened many times at home before and my kids or husband would reference it like "well you know when xyz happened you werent 'all there' They have grown to understand that these things happen around once every 2 months or so. I have sent inappropriate pics to the wrong people(not naked but intended for my husband)I have made phone calls and scheduled appts or made trips without remembering it. I will ask about whether or not I gave so and so something back that I borrowed and my husband will be like 'you mean you dont remember this?" I shudder to think that I have driven during some of these periods of time.
I have been checked by a neuro, and my pcp and my p-doc has told me that while this is sort of uncommon she has a few BP patients that this happens too. My therapist told me 2 weeks ago that in the last 2 months he has had 2 other BPII patients experience this same thing. In fact all of the patients that my doctor told me about were all BPII.

Its a scarey feeling. I feel like I ruined christmas and my memory of it is so hazy and I thought things were ok, like it was a good christmas when apparently I was acting the fool.
Has anyone else with BP experience this? Periods where things happen and you only know you did something or behaved a certain way because someone told you about it? My doctor has told me that this is something that I may just have to learn to cope with. I felt like I was going senile or had dementia before I learned what it was. I have been on disability for many years, thank god because I am sure I would have been fired otherwise. The idea that my pieces of short term events are missing or gone terrifies me, and it was good to hear my doctor and therapist tell me that I wasnt alone in this but I thought I would ask my dear friends here at ADDF if they had ever experienced this.
Thanks friends.

Fuzzy12
04-14-14, 05:57 AM
Sarah, that's sounds super scary. It would have freaked me out. I can't say that I've experienced it though. When I'm hypomanic, I can act as if I'm drunk (e.g. saying/yelling inappropriate stuff, etc.) but I do recall it later, mostly. I think, I'm also aware at the time that I'm doing it but it's just that I think, it's a good idea. Or fun. I don't really lose time or can't recall it later, so I think, it's different.

I've heard it happens with BP I so I guess, it's possible with BP II as well. What does your doc say? Is there anything that can help? Do meds help?

BellaVita
04-14-14, 06:27 AM
I don't have the focus currently to read all of that
but sometimes when I'm in an episode, I often don't recall how I acted....

Or am surprised to find out how I did when I thought it was different.

Abi
04-14-14, 07:28 AM
I have experienced this in the past, less so recently.

I even have a record of a full blown dissociative fugue episode that lasted DAYS on my psych record.

sarahsweets
04-15-14, 05:55 AM
I am guessing that meds do help because I cant imagine what would happen if I was med free. Both my doctor and therapist believe this is somewhat common and are trying to help me recognize the "warning signs" at least so I can be watched by my family. And I do sometimes have vague recollections of these things happening but I am hoping to find others who have had this happen in hope there are more things I can do to make it easier. This section doesnt get alot of traffic so Im hoping that people take some sort of notice because ADDF members are the only ones I can think of that may help/support me.

Sarah, that's sounds super scary. It would have freaked me out. I can't say that I've experienced it though. When I'm hypomanic, I can act as if I'm drunk (e.g. saying/yelling inappropriate stuff, etc.) but I do recall it later, mostly. I think, I'm also aware at the time that I'm doing it but it's just that I think, it's a good idea. Or fun. I don't really lose time or can't recall it later, so I think, it's different.

I've heard it happens with BP I so I guess, it's possible with BP II as well. What does your doc say? Is there anything that can help? Do meds help?

salleh
04-15-14, 09:19 AM
.....Oh Sarah .....that is scary ....I am not BP, so I can't relate ...but I can imagine .....( I am kinda good at putting myself in other's shoes) .....what I can't seem to do is find the words to help .....

....But you do have a family who loves you and will help you during these times ....and it is really something that you don't want to keep secret ....at least among people who you are around a lot .....so that they'll understand when these episodes happen .....if they know that occasionally you won't be yourself .....they might be able to deal with it better ....

...One question you might keep in mind .....is there something that triggers this ?.....is it something that you can control ???


.....Oh I wish this weren't happening to you .....and I really hope that there is some way you can find to control it ....you have my unconditional love, and I am only a friend from afar ....a great admirer, I know that you have a wonderful husband who loves you dearly ....and kids who think you hung the moon .....( you do, after all ) ....

...oh this all sounds inadequate.....so I'll just send good thoughts at you ...

fracturedstory
04-16-14, 09:55 PM
I do get some coordination issues. I'm not really sure if it's related. I stumble around like I have dyspraxia. I've been seeing things in my vision too. I don't it's got anything to do with my eyesight. Everything seems to be out of whack. Coordination, executive functions (more so than usual), seeing things, and even feeling well in my body.

I don't tend to remember much about my manic episodes. I just do so much during them that I begin to forget what I did at the first half of the day.

I think with rapid cycling I feel so uncomfortable and out of control because I don't stay in any one mood to know how to cope with them. It hasn't happened for awhile so I'm unsure how much I would remember about what I did during that time.

BellaVita
04-16-14, 11:01 PM
Thing with episodes is your perception is different than what's actually happening....

(At least from my experience)

TygerSan
04-19-14, 11:19 AM
Sounds scary.

I hesitate to bring this up cause messing with meds is never a good idea, and it sounds cyclical, but there is a possibility it could be med-related as well as episode related.

Have you ever had your levels checked? Might be worth it, especially if you're on a relatively high dose of an anti-convulsant (Lamictal/Topomax), or Lithium, as people can go toxic on these meds. Confusion and ataxia can be signs of med toxicity.

I have a relative about whose mental state people were very concerned. It turned out to not be dementia, but rather the consequence of long-term benzo use, as prescribed.