View Full Version : I can help, in the cure/help for ADHD.


Newlook44
04-20-14, 10:09 PM
I think, I can help in the cure/help for ADHD.

A little bit about me:

I am 45 year old male with ADHD "just found out", I am a great problem solver, with the things I care about.

I married a girl that I was attracted to, married for love, knowing that something was wrong.
I was the man for her, she needed a person like me to take care of her,
she filed my gaps and I filed her gaps in our personalities.
She is very gifted in many ways, Are kids are 4.3 and 4.2 grade point average in school.
In researching my adhd. I have have learn that my wife also has adhd, "Rigid Thinking".
My kids also have Very strong "maybe gifted" adhd.
Here is the problem, My wife has been the caretaker of are children,
"She call all the shots" It was set up this way, from the beginning.
I have no say. I was the money maker, and I have done good job.
I have shared my thoughts, to her on rigid thinking.
Only to see her become unglued in her mind.
I can't do this on my own, "I am not qualified"
Her brother hurt himself bad, the night his wife left him.
And I'm the only one to see the ADHD in the family
They protect it well, They don't known what there missing in life
So, I am getting a divorce, Because of our ADHD..
I want to someday, to have my wife back, and to save my kids,
from all the tears they will face. Like my wife and I "Almost constant"

There is so much I have learned, Both sides of the family have ADHD, my wife best friend, about 15 in all. I have seen Adhd has destroyed a lot of good marriages.

The reason I am writing all of this, is to show where my passion for comes from. The last 4 months, I have gathered information, and connected the dots
night after night and feel strong enough to do this or at lease try.


I am 90% sure that I have the answers, to change are world.

Just don't know what to do with it. Just need the the right person or people to help me.

If you have an idea, on what I should do, please guide me to the right people.
I could also be wrong, but I don't think so.

Thank You
Newlook44

Might not respond right a way, with all the ADHD in my world,

sarahsweets
04-21-14, 04:55 AM
Sorry to burst your bubble but adhd cannot be cured.

willow129
04-21-14, 12:51 PM
this post is head scratcher to me

namazu
04-21-14, 01:20 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your family's struggles, but glad you have gained new awareness of how ADHD has affected you and them.

We might be able to give more specific feedback if you can share some of your ideas and insights about ADHD. What are the ideas you want help implementing?

addthree
04-21-14, 03:54 PM
What you talkin bout Willis?

USMCcop
04-21-14, 03:56 PM
I wonder if he can cure gay people too.

Nicksgonefishin
04-22-14, 02:02 AM
Cure... i cringed so hard at that word that I didn't bother reading your post.

I'm glad you found the forum. I hope you stick around.

Much to learn you have.

meadd823
04-27-14, 05:06 AM
I have cure for ADD too but but but I lost it :D

OKay I am off this thing and going to bed . . . .meds effects have definitely gone bye- bye.

Dizfriz
04-27-14, 12:03 PM
I think, I can help in the cure/help for ADHD.



The reason I am writing all of this, is to show where my passion for comes from. The last 4 months, I have gathered information, and connected the dots night after night and feel strong enough to do this or at lease try.


I am 90% sure that I have the answers, to change are world.



I hate to be a bubble burster but the odds of coming up with something new in four months that has not been considered before is slim. People have been studying ADHD for decades and many have made it their life's work.

That doesn't mean that you don't have something though. So my suggestion is to write your ideas up, go over it carefully and present it on the forum. I don't want to let something slide by that might be of help.

Dizfriz