View Full Version : Have not been in a relationship for about 10 years now.

05-08-16, 05:39 AM
As time progresses the idea of being in a relationship becomes scarier for some reason. Normally I avoid thinking about this because it reminds me of how messed up I am in this regards because no woman would want anything to do with a man at my age who's a complete failure in the relationship department. :(

05-08-16, 05:46 AM
I feel for you Lloyd, I'm another "failure" in the relationship department :grouphug: haven't had a relationship for several years myself after a particular ex of mine hurt me so badly :grouphug:

For me, it's partly because I just can't let anyone in nowadays :)

05-08-16, 07:06 AM
What makes you think you are a failure in the relationship department? More interestingly, what makes you think you are an incorrigible, irreversible failure?

Relationships are scary though. I suck at them and not just romantic ones.

05-08-16, 07:25 AM
Maybe this time is for you to grow as a person, and also maybe your future SO is growing as a person during this time too.