View Full Version : Is hard to date when I have ADHD and my son has autism


Omgitstita
11-25-16, 02:47 PM
It seems everyone doesn't wanna hear that:mad:

ginniebean
11-25-16, 05:30 PM
Sad fact is people know it's hard and most won't want to accept that. Most does not mean all, keep positive, be open and good luck.

BellaVita
11-25-16, 05:39 PM
I'm sorry you're feeling frustrated. :grouphug:

Omgitstita
11-25-16, 05:42 PM
Thanks guys is sad and hard haven't gave up

Shoquester
11-26-16, 08:53 PM
Yes, it is simple to date when you have ADHD and your son has autism.

Let me explain .... only you can decide how you choose to approach a situation.

Like digging a big hole .... it's easy to understand but takes a lot of effort to complete and you will only ever get out what you put in.

So, that being said let's continue .....

I'm a very systematical person so I'll just bullet point what I would do if I were you.

I'm assuming you are female.

- Get diagnosed correctly for ADHD. Many people are mid-diagnosed,
- Have a written fail safe plan that will allow you to manage your life with ADHD,
- Be clear on what you can bring to a relationship. (Google ...The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman,
- Be clear what you are looking for, (ie. someone who will accept your son)
- Work on building your confidence up (I use audio tapes while driving)
- Focus more on yourself and be the best person you can be and trust me ... the men you want will cross your path when the time is right :)

Here's a few youtube links that will help get you going in the right direction ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZPYrfnw06Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7WDPrDAM2Cc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSZZ2m5y4wk

You will find an "amazing person" who is perfect for you when you become the "amazing person" somebody else is looking :)

I hope this helps :)