View Full Version : Education - why you should just do it!


healthwiz
09-03-05, 06:25 PM
I started this off in the therapy section because it started off about Psychodrama. However, it ended and mostly was about college. So i'm reposting under college.

Just a follow up, after many months. Psychodrama, which i have participated in for 4 solid 10 month seasons a year, has definetley improved my life and my outlook. Ofcourse there are still stubborn problems, but my view on solving them has changed. I've recently come to the conclusion that i can do anything i want with my life, and there is no reason not to. this is quite unusual for me, as i typically sit around nervously avoiding doing what i want in the world. I recently entered grad school, just a week ago, because i felt the confidence to simply do what my feeling was telling me to do. Normally, that is a lot of risk for me, and infinite avoidance of risk...this time i jumped in with no solid answers about where it was taking me..oh well, faith.

I don't think it is entirely psychodrama that made the difference. However, i do think psychodrama helped a lot. I'm debating whether to start my 5th season of psychodrama soon. If i don't do it, it will be a big life change for me. I think i may do it another half year. Grad school schedule is going to interrupt psychodrama nights next semester...so i may not have much of a choice in the matter.

By the way, grad school is fun. I like the classes, i like the challenge, and i am not bored anymore. I encourage everyone who is sitting there, thinking should i or shouldn't i, to just do it. Don;t worry so much about where the degree is going to lead, because it is certainly going to lead more places that no degree is going to lead. Where is the current situation leading? Waiting to see some infomercial on late night tv that will make all your wealthy dreams come true? How often does that happen? Getting a degree, any degree is farther down the road of life changing experiences that any infomercial can offer. Doing nothing, may produce life changing experiences, but normally those are not the ones we are hoping for, like, negative experiences.

In my opinion, its easier to bear a little failure in school, perhaps a bad grade, or the need to drop a class and still pay the tuition, or the need to go to the department on campus that helps students with disabilities...that is not nearly as painful as a lot of nothing in life.... just some thoughts to think about.

Anyhow, i'm prosteletising, don't let the ADD, the mood disorders, the learning disabilities, or low self esteem issues or Depression or money fears, or just fear itself, or panic disorders, stand in the way of your education...just do it! Everyone, even people with these problems we all face, deserves to be able to make some dreams happen, even if they are harder in some ways for us...we still deserve to be able to do it! So do it!



Jonathan

Nucking_Futs
09-04-05, 12:44 AM
I did already, sheesh get off my back. :p

No, really I did finally just shut up and signed up and everything is going really well so far. I decided that this time I was going to school to be an RN and nothing was going to get in my way least of all myself and my fears.

I started small and kept it down to Anatomy and Physiology I and Algebra to get me up to speed or Chemistry. I've already handed in papers and taken tests in both classes and have done far better then I thought. So, far I am holding steady at a 98% in both classes. :D

healthwiz
09-04-05, 07:22 PM
I did already, sheesh get off my back. :p

No, really I did finally just shut up and signed up and everything is going really well so far. I decided that this time I was going to school to be an RN and nothing was going to get in my way least of all myself and my fears.

I started small and kept it down to Anatomy and Physiology I and Algebra to get me up to speed or Chemistry. I've already handed in papers and taken tests in both classes and have done far better then I thought. So, far I am holding steady at a 98% in both classes. :D

That's awesome. I should have gone back 5 years ago, the fear of doing poorly, practically panick, just kept me away. Keep doing well in those classe, and then you can nurse me back to health baby!

:)
Jon

HappyTaxa
09-07-05, 02:04 PM
I know this is a little off the subject, but what is Psychodrama? If it is helpful than it must be good, but the name alone is a bit intimidating.

healthwiz
09-08-05, 02:00 AM
I know this is a little off the subject, but what is Psychodrama? If it is helpful than it must be good, but the name alone is a bit intimidating.

Yes, the name is intimidating, i totally agree with you on that. Psychodrama is a form of group therapy, which combines features of theatre drama with features of therapy. It takes place in a highly confidential group setting, nothing leaves the room. Scenes from peoples lives are acted out by the members of the group, while the person whose life is being portrayed both plays the lead role, and helps direct the drama. A director is the co-director with the person who the drama is about, so the two of them work out the details, until it so accurately depicts a person life, or atleast invokes the emotions of the original scene in a life, that it makes it possible for the person to have a break through, a catharsis, a major insight, a healing, and be able to move forward in their lives. Often there are highly emotional, traumatizing experiences in our lives, which leave us handicapped, trapped, hostage, to the emotional damage. The psychodrama technique is repairative, restorative. However, it requires a certain level of interest in self growth, and the willingness to be persistent in seeking answers. For those willing to take a good hard look at the truth about themselves, and who wish to build understanding of others, including total strangers, family, friends, and even enemies, this is the course for you.

I hope that helps. There are other posts here about psychodrama, which i have written which might also help, but i dont know how to search the site for those posts.

Any questions? Let me know!!

Jon

HappyTaxa
09-08-05, 03:27 PM
That sounds really interesting. I might do some reading on it. I definately need to find a way to better develope my communicative/social skills, but psychodrama sounds pretty intense. I'll probably just stick to beer pong, but it is good to know that this exists. I can see where it would make a world of differance for some.

rose65
09-22-05, 12:48 PM
I am a 39 3/4 mother of a 10 yo and a 14 yo. I also just signed up for college to get my RN. I am taking Psychology (doing good in that class...imagine that...lol) and Anatomy and Physiology...not doing so good there. I was made aware yesterday in my counseling session that I may have ADD and am hoping as I learn to deal with it my learning in school will become much easier and I hope I do better. I have always felt dumb and barely passed high school 21 years ago....if I do have ADD then it answers a lot of questions I had about me.

I'm new to this forum. Everyone seems nice.

Thanks,
Rose

Nucking_Futs
09-22-05, 02:27 PM
Hey Rose I have found ways to help with studying my A&P if you want some pointers. I can't simply read the chapter I have to be hands on, it helps to get a little creative.

healthwiz
09-22-05, 10:09 PM
hi there Rose - i'm enjoying being back in school. i have to catch up on the reading.... hey Nucking Futs....what - who - huh - what is the dancing deal?? !!!

Rose - i have realized ADD is not the only condition that takes away from concentration in school. I also barely graduated from HS.....in fact i had to go to summer school to get my diploma! So i undertstand. There are secondary conditions that can contribute, such as sleep apnea, depression, mood disorders, other sleep disorders, etc.... So as you walk down the path of "ADD" remember that the symptoms might be ADD-like, but the actual treatment might be attending to a variety of conditions that together approximate what ADD feels like. My suggestion is that people should not stop at the ADD diagnosis, even though it is soothing to learn you are ADD, but should ask that their doctors look further than the first and easiest diagnosis and look for other possible contributing factors. If there are other contributing factors, finding out sooner is better than later, and it will help tailor your treatment to meet your needs. There is one caveat, seperating secondary condition symptoms from ADD is very challenging and it takes a special "talented" doctor to do so. Most of them are herd followers, few are leaders - look for the leaders.

Would anyone agree?

I hope that helps.

Jon