Why is it that when someone starts a thread about LOVE then it becomes this whole debate about the difference between love & lust...then it sometimes becomes this uphill battle that only a few are willing to hold on to...and then the WHOLE point of the thread is wiped out....

How hard is it to just allow the thread to stick with the subject...if someone wants to post a thread about lust then please do so I know you'll get a lot of replys but also if someone wants to post a thread about love then do so also and leave each to his own.

I know for me I'd love to post a poll about some lovey things but then I know the whole thread will get bogged down with so much "it's only lust not love" talk that in all honesty whats the point???