ktucker
11-09-05, 04:24 AM
I was thinking the other day about why I have way more boyfriends than girlfriends and why that would be.
I thought perhaps it was because men were more 'hunters' and so are people with ADD. I scare a lot of women and the only female friends I have are strong/out there people like me.
Am I the only one or is this common?
Kate
stori813
11-09-05, 01:07 PM
I have about the same amount of female and male friends.
But I have noticed most of my female friends have no male friends.
wheresmykeys
11-09-05, 04:13 PM
I have more male friends than most girls I know.
Boys just make better friends..
Not putting down girls, my very best friend is a girl, but overall I prefer male companions.
I've always had more boy friends my entire life! I just thought it was 'cause I was one of the guys anyway, mostly being a tomboy...anyone else feel like that?
Dixie_Amazon
11-11-05, 08:17 AM
I've always had more boy friends my entire life! I just thought it was 'cause I was one of the guys anyway, mostly being a tomboy...anyone else feel like that? Definitely! As I have mentioned it in other posts my DH says I am "such a guy sometimes".
Busymind04
11-11-05, 03:46 PM
I agree, I have had alot more guy friend than Girlfiends, I only have 2 very close girlfriends that I have known for 25 & 15 years. Otherwise they have all been guys, I just get along better with guys, I think too because I was a tomboy, I still am. I think women with ADD relate better to men only because in my case, I find it hard to be feminine, I mean I get pedicures and do my nails but for some reason I hate shopping, I find it very overwhelming and frustrating. Sorry I knid of went on my own path there.
but yep..more guy friends than girlfriends.
FlyGurl
11-14-05, 02:27 PM
I picked the more male than female...
when i was growing up i had a ton of guy friends...I went through girlfriends very fast because they would get jealous of me for being comfortable around their boyfriends or for their boyfriends being friends with me....i think all in all I've had umm...4 close girlfriends...and even then they were terrible....
the two friends that I have right now...they are great...i really like them... both have grown up the same as me...only having really just guys as friends....and understand that girl jealousy is just plain stupid as all get up....
I can honestly say that i can understand a guy better than a girl...unless she is like me and just really doesn't give a shi* about "girl issues" :)
right now if i had a lot of guy friends i wouldn't be engaged. tehe....so I just have my FH and my friends hubby...and thats it as far as guy friends... but it's cool... :D