hi there. just new to this...i have a issue and hope for input. My spouse has started dex. for his adhd. (would like any information anyone has on this)
We are also trying to concieve our first child, and I am on fertility meds . He now has no sex drive, and Im going crazy..It goes without saying what shape we are in. Im trying to be patient and understanding, but at the same time.....wow. has anyone got any experience with this?:confused: :eyebrow:

Hi bonjoe, nice to see you.

For dex, I've included a link to our medications subforum and you might find this helpful

http://www.addforums.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=31

the meds issue can be complex and take a while to sort out. some meds seem not to change sex drive and some do, depending on the individual sometimes.

you might find it better to stop trying to have a child for a while, until the meds issue is straightened out.

If you are as you describe, not in good shape, does it seem logical that now is the right time to introduce more stress into your life? Especially considering that multiple births are not uncommon with fertility medication and that can be hugely complicating.

Fertility problems are stressful on their own never mind combining them with relationship issues for whatever reasons.

Just a thought. :-)

cs

Hi again! Thank you for the information, I have gone in and read loads of stuff! I was a bit vague on the details, we are both really hopeing for a baby, and we are in good shape together. Just the med effects in the bedroom...lol
Take care!

Oh, I see!

Good luck with that, glad you found some good info!

Cheers,

cs