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Tater
05-24-06, 06:00 PM
I know being an ADHDer i dont always get positive feedback. Im making this thread for people to recognize what they are strong at and what they do well!
Feel free to mention as much stuff as you want, you are an amazing person

Ill start off:

I'm good at debating
I can do things really well at the last minute

ADHDSupport
05-24-06, 06:05 PM
Great idea, Tater!

I am great at putting things together, like baby swings, treadmills, anything like that that requires assembly and figuring out what part goes where.

I am good at being a mother to my 7 yr old son.

Thats all for now, maybe I will give it more thought to see if there are other things.

-A

danceswthnobody
05-24-06, 06:14 PM
At work, I've always been told that I'm a very quick thinker and can handle 'curve balls' very well. Within my family, I'm always the one who takes charge and pulls things together when something happens (funerals, weddings, you name it).

I am also very analytical and I can see things immediately that other people miss. I'm a cost accountant, so that's a very good quality to have. Definitely creates some job security.

I am also good at making other people feel better. My friends and co-workers describe me as nurturing and I do enjoy taking care of the people in my life in any way I can. It just feels right to me.

Wow, thanks for creating this thread! If you had posted one for us to list all our flaws or shortcomings, I'd have crashed the site with hundreds of pages.

Most of us with ADD are so hard on ourselves, or at least I know that I am. I tend to never see the good in myself, only the bad. It felt good to mention some of the positive stuff.

EYEFORGOT
05-24-06, 06:40 PM
I'm good at whipping my bra off without removing my shirt first.


ok, I guess that wasn't the point of your thread.

I'm good at inspiring young people.
I'm good at seeing other people's point of view/empathizing.

Tater
05-24-06, 06:46 PM
I dont know, it works still Eye :)

vir novum
05-24-06, 07:38 PM
I'm good at coming up with ideas, thinking outside the box, that sort of thing.
I'm good at seeing the potential pitfalls of a plan.
I'm good at coming up with obscure knowledge when it's needed, or knowing things I'm not required to know. I get "hey, aren't you supposed to be a mechanical engineer?" or "are you sure you're in the right major?" a lot.

ms_sunshine
05-24-06, 08:28 PM
LOL I can do that bra trick too

meadd823
05-24-06, 10:19 PM
I'm good at debating

Yea you are pretty good at that, if I do say so myself. :D Which reminds me……..
Gotta go check that section out after supper……can’t concentrate on debating with the smell of fried fish!!!




I'm good at whipping my bra off without removing my shirt first

ROFL-----I am sorry……… :p This is sooooooo me.. all I need to figure out is how to do the sports kind-lol!!!!

Changing cloths in a small fast moving vehicles.

Writing letter in a truck going 70mph, I can draw in a fast moving truck too.

I am good at seeing the bottom line.

I know weather or not a mechanical idea is going to work… I can “see” physics so to speak.

I am good doing several things at once.

I also see easier ways of doing things.

I write some pretty good one liners.

Getting to the point.

Being honest even when it is hard.

My specialty is saying what often needs to be said-some time I can be to good at this. :o

Okay Tater supper time is over ..going to see what ya got for me in debates!

ms_sunshine
05-24-06, 10:22 PM
whispers...

unhook bra through shirt. one strap out through end of sleeve. then reach under other sleeve and pull entire bra out.

for a sports bra, you'll have to finish by tugging it off over your head.

(don't ask how I know this...just trust me.)

EYEFORGOT
05-24-06, 10:46 PM
The sports kind without hooks?

Same concept, just harder because they fit so tightly, but yeah, like sunshine said, whips off over the head.

Being honest even when it is hard.

My specialty is saying what often needs to be said- I truly wish I was better at this.

I am good at peaple-pleasing. Maybe I should have been a Cruise Director.

susane
05-24-06, 11:47 PM
I am good at research and investigation...I can really dig to get to the bottom of something.

I have good intuition...if my intuition is telling me there is something wrong I usually take heed. On the positive side it also tells me when something is good.


I am really good at identifying an idea that has potential and taking it to the next level. I can see all of the possibilities from a global perspective.

That is all I have for now...

Crazy~Feet
05-25-06, 12:11 AM
I am good at therapy, actually, love digging round this brain of mine.

I am good with reptiles and EXCELLENT with birds, from tiny finches to large parrots.

I am a fair hand at astrology.

I am good at seeing the bizarre humor in situations when they need to be lightened up.

I have been in the past an excellent moderator at 4 different forums.

I can turn an RPG game into an artform, as long as I find it interesting.

I am great at encouraging my spouse, especially when he is convinced he does not deserve encouragement.

I have managed to survive puberty in 2 female children and am currently weathering the third (one is still a tot). I do not know what exactly that makes me good at? But I think it had better count for something!

ms_sunshine
05-25-06, 12:19 AM
i'm good at adapting lessons to meet the individual needs of students, even if I already had the lessons mapped out.

I can kinda look into their eyes, and gauge if they're "getting" it or not...and if not, I somehow always manage to instantly find a way that they will understand.

I think I have my adhd to thank for this skill, too.

livinginchaos
05-25-06, 01:17 AM
I'm good at whipping my bra off without removing my shirt first.


LOL I can do that bra trick too
me three!! :D



You can do it, Tammy! It's easy once you get the hang of it!

Chicky75
05-25-06, 11:30 AM
I am good at explaining technical things to non-technical people, in a few different ways in case they didn't get it the first time.

I'm good at taking things apart and putting them together.

I'm good at debating in writing, though not generally in verbal form.

I have a good sense of direction, most of the time, and am a very good driver - I think because I have a very good sense of what space my car takes up and where other drivers are around me, and because I can anticipate what other drivers are going to do.

I am good at understanding how to do physical things like yoga or martial arts or dancing.

I am good at counseling friends and helping them get to the root of a problem.

Foot-in-mouth
05-25-06, 12:31 PM
me three!! :D



You can do it, Tammy! It's easy once you get the hang of it!
I hate it when my wife does that. It deprives me of a little peep show...


I am good at figuring out problems and figuring out how things work.

Gupi
05-25-06, 02:22 PM
I am good at debating. Im intuitive and can tell how someone is feeling (sometimes i accidently read to much into it and think the person is feeling more intensley than in actuality). Im good at directing and improvisational skills on set since most of my movies are for fun and most do not have a script. :D

livinginchaos
05-25-06, 02:36 PM
I am excellent at putting things together, correctly, without using directions.

I am a good singer and musician.

I'm good at analyzing behavior and coming up with a plan of action.

i am a good listener.

tripolarJOE
05-25-06, 10:24 PM
Im good at:
multtasking(sp)
quick wit
inventer
listener
teacher(I am not a teacher)
talking to my self
good at making money disaper
taking hardly any days off from work
getting places on time
driving
planing ahead
fixing things
not wasting time
good with my hands
making co workers laugh and time go by fast

I have had bosses at veryis jobs say to me things like"If I had a shop full of guys like you I would have it maid.

or who taught you to work like this

When I call your work I want you to be the one that comes back or ill use another company

or people say I have never seen anyone work like you do

or you seem to realy care about making the customer happy

spitfire
05-26-06, 12:57 AM
I am good at teaching and explaining things to people.
I am good at research.
I am a good writer when I can get myself together enough to do it.
I can be a good cook when I don't forget about stuff and burn it.
I think that there are times when I'm a good mom. Most of the time I think I'm competent.
I hear that I can inspire people, so I guess I'm good at that.

I can do that bra trick too! And all kinds of other ones after nursing for as long as I did.

meadd823
05-26-06, 04:58 AM
The sports kind without hooks?

They have hooks???? :confused:





I am good at seeing the bizarre humor in situations when they need to be lightened up.

How ironic so do I!




I have managed to survive puberty in 2 female children and am currently weathering the third (one is still a tot). I do not know what exactly that makes me good at? But I think it had better count for something!

Good at suffering through the hormonal changes in others and not killing them!!! :D

I have three daughters myself! They did manage to become adults any way!


Hmmmmmmmm

Think I whip up some pretty creative stuff on the “fly” when I need to! I can do pretty inventive problem solving on occasions.




I'm good at taking things apart and putting them together.

Oh your supposed to put them back together… :eek: .I am good at disassembling but keeping up with pieces. .well…..




I can do that bra trick too! And all kinds of other ones after nursing for as long as I did.

Nursing and “all kind of other ones” eeek I am a nurse to but this is a family friendly forum so I won’t mention the unmentionables… :rolleyes: ….which nursing helps most when these do not go as planned-lol :p

Crazy~Feet
05-26-06, 02:29 PM
I nominate Tammy for being good at cracking me up through sheer linguistic talent. I, of course, am good at gleaning her good points while LMAO :D.

boone1
06-11-06, 06:14 PM
Im a good musician and im good at teaching myself things.
I can be really good at giving advice, but If I do I have to write it down so I can think about what Im saying incase I accidently offend the person :rolleyes:

auntchris
06-11-06, 06:53 PM
Hey ms_sunshine you stole my line ... I am real good at whipping off my bra esp when it hot or having a hot flash.... :D

AnneM
06-14-06, 10:17 PM
These posts are so funny.....I too can whip my bra off through an armsleeve...I use to do it in front of my husband and just laugh cause he thought it was pretty neat (like a magic trick!)

I am very good at being silly!
I am good about reading to my kids and explaining how things work (in detail) to them.
I have alot of interests.....I usually can't read a whole book about all these interests but I have certainly read alot of chapters on alot of different subjects.
I can draw and paint and I can write well (but only if you tell me what to write about ).
Great topic...nice to read about the good stuff.

meadd823
06-14-06, 11:42 PM
I am good at seeing the funny side of things which has a direct baring upon me good at being the strange one that laughs at loud for no apparent reason.

I am good at accepting people they way they are without the preconceived notions. I fail to have any expectation of people beyond honestly being who they are. I told this to a lady who tripped over a chair coming to shake my hand . . . she looked so relieved. I simply do not get the putting people in a box thing I think that is a gift, I would venture to say that is probably a direct result of being ADD.

adhdgirl
06-15-06, 11:10 AM
I am a good encourager and looking on the brighter side of things

I am good at making a mess of my house and ignoring it for months or years

I am good at finding bargains

I am good at buying presents for people (My husband says an expert)

I am good at counseling and feeling people's pain

I am good at writing papers (if I can concentrate long enough)

I am good at making people feel loved and accepted :)

Iwalani8
06-15-06, 08:20 PM
i think most girls can do that bra trick. thinking about it, i'm realizing i do that all the time, to where i don't even remember when i started! Just one of those routines~

but, i'm good at other things too, like understanding all types of people and feeling empathy (even if i don't want to). i also play instruments and do various arty things.

like many of you, i'm really good at doing things under a looming deadline and lots of pressure.

Draven
06-15-06, 08:36 PM
I thought that was the only way to take your bra off by yourself. Heck, my nine year old has gotten the hang of it after seeing me take my bra off everyday through my shirt lol

I am good at loving completely (but sadly it usually only last a short time unless you are my child)

I am good at buying and selling as long as it is not real money and it is on a game (Neopets, shop and plushie tycoon)

I am good at making friends ( again sadly these ususally do not last long either)

I am good at forgivness almost to a fault at times

I am good at being my childrens mommy,, just ask them lol

Paws13
06-15-06, 09:24 PM
I'm good at keeping cool under stressful situations, and managing to slide out of sticky ones.

I can also rock climb well :)

FunkyWalker
06-18-06, 01:56 PM
I am good at explaining technical things to non-technical people, in a few different ways in case they didn't get it the first time.

I'm good at taking things apart and putting them together.

I have a good sense of direction, most of the time, and am a very good driver - I think because I have a very good sense of what space my car takes up and where other drivers are around me, and because I can anticipate what other drivers are going to do.

I am good at understanding how to do physical things like yoga or martial arts or dancing. I'm good at those thing as well.

I find i'm a very good troubleshooter when it comes to electronic gadgets.....computers, vcr's & dvd players, stereo's (car & home). I own my own printer comany (repair inkjet and laser printers, fax machines, small copiers). 90% of the time i can diagnose and repair my own personal collection of junk instead of paying someone to do it or throwing them in the garbage.