Griz
09-06-06, 04:01 PM
I bet the users of this forum would like a nickel for everytime this question gets asked. So, please bare with me. Here's my story:
I am in my early thirties and male. I have never had mood swings as I tend to be very even keeled no matter the circumstance. I get upset when something truly warrants it but otherwise I am fine. No depression, mood swings etc.
But, I have NEVER been able to finish a task. I did the siding on my house a year ago this month and I still have a 10x10 area that needs done. I have a half built shed in the backyard that probably only needs 2 hours of work to be finished but it's still not done.
I seem to become VERY distracted by shiny objects as well. For instance, I just knew that I wanted to put a movie theater in my basement. I paid to have 90% of the work completed for me. This was months ago and I still have not done my 10% of the work. I have simply lost interest in it. During the process I became interested in getting a new truck so that now has 100% of my focus. Or at least until something else shiny comes around.
I run my own consulting business which has done very well. However, I find that I have no choice but to double and triple check my work for accuracy as I tend to overlook things. I usually wait until the last minute to get my paperwork done and by then time is usually not plentiful.
It drives my wife nuts that I cannot remain focus on one item until it gets done. She has known me since I was little so she has simply become accustomed to my behavior. But, I want better for her and quite frankly, better for me. I do not like being a sore subject for her. I want to be motivated to finish projects, on time, and done right.
That's it. That's my story. I DO NOT believe in becoming medicated for any reason. And, I most certainly do not desire to lump my behavior in with people who truly do suffer from ADD. But, I also need to know if my behavior falls into the category of someone to whom medication can actually help. I have taken the various tests and it places me at the mild to mid add. There are a lot of the questions (25 in all I believe) that simply do not apply to me. I don't interupt people, I don't have problems with relationships etc. But, I have not balanced my checkbook for over 2 years either.
Anyways, any thoughts you have is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Griz
I am in my early thirties and male. I have never had mood swings as I tend to be very even keeled no matter the circumstance. I get upset when something truly warrants it but otherwise I am fine. No depression, mood swings etc.
But, I have NEVER been able to finish a task. I did the siding on my house a year ago this month and I still have a 10x10 area that needs done. I have a half built shed in the backyard that probably only needs 2 hours of work to be finished but it's still not done.
I seem to become VERY distracted by shiny objects as well. For instance, I just knew that I wanted to put a movie theater in my basement. I paid to have 90% of the work completed for me. This was months ago and I still have not done my 10% of the work. I have simply lost interest in it. During the process I became interested in getting a new truck so that now has 100% of my focus. Or at least until something else shiny comes around.
I run my own consulting business which has done very well. However, I find that I have no choice but to double and triple check my work for accuracy as I tend to overlook things. I usually wait until the last minute to get my paperwork done and by then time is usually not plentiful.
It drives my wife nuts that I cannot remain focus on one item until it gets done. She has known me since I was little so she has simply become accustomed to my behavior. But, I want better for her and quite frankly, better for me. I do not like being a sore subject for her. I want to be motivated to finish projects, on time, and done right.
That's it. That's my story. I DO NOT believe in becoming medicated for any reason. And, I most certainly do not desire to lump my behavior in with people who truly do suffer from ADD. But, I also need to know if my behavior falls into the category of someone to whom medication can actually help. I have taken the various tests and it places me at the mild to mid add. There are a lot of the questions (25 in all I believe) that simply do not apply to me. I don't interupt people, I don't have problems with relationships etc. But, I have not balanced my checkbook for over 2 years either.
Anyways, any thoughts you have is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Griz