my 13 year old son has been temporarily excluded from school for the second time since they started back in september, basically the school say they can't teach him, he is in the middle of being statemented again adn waiting to go to the pupil referral unit but I don't hold out much hope of him returning to a mainstream school, there are a number of special needs schools out there but none in our county and apparently the lea has to refer him, what do i do?