I just wanted to give any worried souls out there a little lift. I was having trouble "finishing" with my semi-girlfriend. I googled a few phrases and it led me here and to some of the threads here. I saw a couple guys talking about troubles with "finishing" and I just want to let you all know that I had sex AND finished recently. Basically here is what happend. I had masturbated my whole life until age 20 and two weeks ago when my roommate and I started fooling around. One thing led to another and we ended up doing it, twice. This happend over two days. Neither time I could cum (she did though) but i was determined to solve the problem. I found out that my effexor was probably causing some of the problems, and ALSO the fact that I was used to my hand for so many years. Anyways, I went on fall break back home and didnt touch myself for 4 days. I also titrated down my dosage of effexor. Anyways, I got back and we tried it again. I did it, no problems, and she loved it.

I just wanted to let you guys know that these problems can be solved. No worries, be happy!

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LOL ^^^ yEAH I had the same reaction.:eyebrow:

But seriously, I also had the same problem. I'm on Paxil, and as it turns out, Paxil is also sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. Well, when I first started the stuff, My wife was all over me one night, and I just couldn't cum to save my life. My I wore out before my dick could. But my wife came like a mo' fo'. So I stopped taking my meds on a daily basis, and it seems to have evened out. I can still last for a long time, but I can also "finish" as well. So it's good for both parties.

have fun!!:D