When former bf who was veteran with ptsd took off last year without warning I presumed he wasn't going to come back in a hurry. He was always on about going overseas. I got on with life and formed a new relationship which is going strong. However, old bf has come back and wants some property he left at my place. Our relationship was a bit turbulent..PTSD and ADD. In hindsight, I found a cause in some of his issues as a veteran. I did a lot for him eg bought a second 4WD he could use to get to uni. He took the 4WD camping with some veteran mates and smashed it up a fair bit and the insurance coy wouldn't accept the whole claim. His brother also caused some damage to my property. Neither of them has apologised or offered to help me pay for the damage so I am out of pocket. Should I keep the property? I feel angry with him and entitled to the stuff but also want to keep the peace. It wasn't a one way street, but I would say the ratio of input into our relationship was me 2 and him 1. He may have a different perception. Advice please or problem solving tips?

Worked it out by myself but it was useful to put it into writing and interesting that no one was willing to give their 2 bob. ce la vie or something like that..french a bit rusty.

Jacinta,

Sometimes it takes more than a few days to get a response to a thread.

Andrew

Hi Jacinta!

I read your post, but I just had no idea what to repy.

I'm glad to hear you sorted things out.