hey;:confused:

okay soo i have been diagnosed wiht ADHD, but the none hyper active one, since i was 3. and im 17 now and am not on meds. my parents dont believe in putting me on them. they put me on very light meds to help me with school for a couple years, but took me off them in the summer.

but my question is am i alone in my "sexual" situation. i have a boyfriend of 5 months, we are starting to get intimate and i fake alot of times being turned on and that sort. i am attracted to him , i am, but it just seems that i am not turned on that easily. i have no prroblem getting turned on "high risk" situations. (ie. backseat of a car w/ parents driving, under a blanket sitting around family ect.) but when we are alone house to our self i am not.


i think it maybe because i dont concintrate on it or anything. but i am not sure. i would like help, support, to know i am not alone and to know if you have any suggestions for me.

Thanks alot!

wow now that i think about it my last girl friend of over a year.. thats really the only time we did stuff and i was actually really turned on by it.. otherwise i was just you know acting like i was into it or just wasnt as into it

high risk situations are just awsome for some reason but now im on meds but havent had a g/f recently any all the situations i have been in are all high risk sence you we are teenagers and really the only time we have time to do those things with people seem to be around other people or in high risk places like the movies or at a party and stuff

your defiantly not alone

Hi sexystickschick

I am wary of posting a reply to this thread however you asked for support that you are not alone.

Yup....it can be boring, unarousing, uncomfortable, and just plain tedious. Everyone's sensuality is different, and unfortunately that basic fact is rarely broadcast.

I remember where you're coming from and empathise but prefer not to go into any detail because of the disparity in our ages.

Enjoy what you do and do what you enjoy

kilt

PS As a newbie I'd think this thread would be better discussed in a highly moderated private forum.

These post where from a while ago so I ma not sure if anyone will still be reading this.

Well sexystix, My personal oppinion is to stay away from sex, it confuses love and lust (not that I know anything about love). but I dont wanna preach.

What I do know however is once you start faking, your gonna have to keep faking. Your boyfriend is probably not that experianced, so is probably still figuring things out as you go allong. If you fake he will never know what is really nice for you or not, neither will you. If it does not work, dont pretend it does. Sex/foreplay is very much a action - reaction thing, you react to your partner and yes, the situation.
Addmitingly public places are a lot of fun and exciting, but eventually your gonna have to learn how to enjoy each others company in any situation - even in the boring old bedroom.