Do any of you share the problem of finding people who want to work with you on projects etc?

of course...especially having group discussions..I find it diffcult to follow the flow of conversation...My mind drift around..others think I don't care...
when holding group activites with my partner, she always says I miss important details..she thinks i am irresponsible...and difficult to communicate with..

Do any one of you have diffculties finding groupmates to do a project??