hello was j/w if like ADHD affected girls differently then guys

not even sure if you can answer this question lol


personly i think if i could find a girl who was pretty with ADHD my life would be freaking fun as heck

because adhd can be cool at times :D def with others who have it so your not alone and plus its 2x the adhd so its super fun


man this post is sooooo ADHDish

I found its hard to find any guys who can keep up with me!

hahah i agree with Didi none of my boyfriends were able to keep up, i'm always to 'crazy' for them. hahah not sure if you could handle it.

yeah hot ADHD guys contact me! lol

Check this thread out. It was orginally posted by Andrew are fearly administrator... heehe Andrew. I hope this helps. there are some helpful links in the article .
You may also want to www.google.com (http://www.google.com/) " ADHD boys and girls differences" or something to that effect .


http://www.addforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=18180&highlight=adhd+affect+boys+girls

My last g/f had ADHD (hyperactive type) and she was far from fun, all she done was shout at me all the time, then she dumps me off for some other plonker. :(

Don't sweat is Fraz, by the sound of it, she was no good to you anyway.

whats up with the teenage girls reading those magazines on how you can please your man? Shouldnt girls at that age be doing other ings besides getting ready to have sex? MAbye im outta the loop on that one:confused:. Were has the world gone?

whats up with the teenage girls reading those magazines on how you can please your man? Shouldnt girls at that age be doing other ings besides getting ready to have sex? MAbye im outta the loop on that one:confused:. Were has the world gone?
Tell me about it; that drives me insane x_x If your "man" isn't pleased with you the way you are, then he's a doofus. No need to look like Madonna.

Anyway, I have yet to have a BF, but I've seen it happen to my friends. ADHD girls were usually too fast for them, and normally too immature. Not to say all of them are like that.

http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/

check this out it is especially of kids, teens and parents. I love this site.

LMAO, HAHAHAH, I have dated two girls in my lifetime, the first, had O.D.D, and the second had ADHD......

The girl with ADHD was SO..MUCH..FUN!

Seriousley, this girl, was INCREADABLEY AWESOME

I used to hang out with a group of ADDers (there were 4 of us, along with outher people with all kinds of disorders) .,..and man...there was NEVER a dull moment...


I would actually go so far as to say, that if I ever married a girl, she would proabley have ADD, becase that is proabley the only way i wouldn[t find her too boaring for myself

True :)




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Originally Posted by Johnnny
whats up with the teenage girls reading those magazines on how you can please your man? Shouldnt girls at that age be doing other ings besides getting ready to have sex? MAbye im outta the loop on that one:confused:. Were has the world gone?

Tell me about it; that drives me insane x_x If your "man" isn't pleased with you the way you are, then he's a doofus. No need to look like Madonna.

Anyway, I have yet to have a BF, but I've seen it happen to my friends. ADHD girls were usually too fast for them, and normally too immature. Not to say all of them are like that
Yea, teenage magazines are on my "top ten list of things that need to be destroyed"

I mean...I actually like it when my GF doesn't wear make-up...when she shows some amount of respect for herself,

I mean, these magizeines pretty much say this "If you don't have X-amount of guys wanting to sleep with you, try destroying your body to look pretty, if that doesn't work, try getting a plastic body instead"

FINALLY!! I have found a group of people who hate those stupid magazines as much as I do, where have you all been hiding all of my life?!! I mean, everyone talks big about not selling yourself short, and being more then just a pretty face, but why are people scorned for actually doing it?

but why are people scorned for actually doing it?
Good point Didi,

Proabley because the vast majority of people see more of a point to wakeing up 2-hours before they have to leave just to put on make up, outher then,

Makeing good friends,
Understanding themselfs and outhers,
Makeing plans for the future,

I mean, the list goes on,

of course those kind of people are going to scorn the kind of people who don't fit in with that idea,

the idea of, status quo of how many boys want to sleep with her,
the idea of how many girls this guy has "done"

I'm shure that sex is the main focal point of many of the major magizines, and I call cosmos a teen magizine,

People who don't agree with those ideas, are scored because, simply they are diffrent.

It disgusts me,

Thats why I finally went abstanant,

trust me Didi, you definitley found someone who hates those magazines as much as you do!!!

Well the reilization is that thoes magazines will not be going away, same with all thoes TV shows and other ad's. A billion dollar industry is here to stay and even grow.

And aslong as they are around, our idea of "pretty" will be affected, and it affects us from birth. There is nothing wrong with trying to take care of yourself, or wearing makeup, or buying fancy clothes. Of course people can take them tot he extreme, but hey, do whatever makes you happy, so dont waste it worrying about what other people do with theirs.

Now, to the first post... adhd girls and such can be a blast yes, but it takes the right guy to be able to have a sustained relationship with them. I've "dated/seen" maybe 3-4 adhd girls, and none of them lasted more than a couple months. We had a heck of a lot of fun, but the arguments were nonstop (I also take a certain girl to have a sustained relationship with, so I stop'd seeing anyone I thought wasnt independant and emotionally weak).

That is a very good point. I LOVE a good argument, and if you can't sit there and argue with me over wheather captain crunch would win over count chocula in a fight, then you might as well not waste your time.

I think a guy with ADHD would be awesome... I know one with just plan ADD and he's already great fun to be around. Now just to find an intelligent adhd guy - #1 on my to-do list =)

I've yet to find a guy that could keep up with me, or that understands me or appreciates me for me. I don't think I will ever find what I want or need in a teenage guy, looks like I'm gonna have to wait awhile D=

I do have a crush on this one guy, i've never been able to tell him though. I like him alot, and for the most part I normally I wouldn't want a boyfriend shorter then me, but hes great (and he'll probably catch up and pass me by alot XD).

I want a guy with a sense of humor, but not some bouncing off the walls acting like an immature dork telling dirty sex jokes all the time.

I do have ADHD but I'm really far from hyper, I have had few hyper times... mostly because I'm not happy, I only get hyper when I'm really happy D=

I don't get why guys DON'T like me. Aside from the fact that I'm tall and that automatically intimidates some guys. I'm not fat, am I too outgoing or something? Do ALL guys want a fragile girl and not one that is strong physically and with words? A guy in one of my classes (so not my type though =X he is annoying as hell) is baffled that I've never had a boyfriend, since I'm so smart and hot (yay for being called hot XD). So many people tell me I'm fun to be around and I'm a good person, but I don't have any good friends anymore and never a boyfriend...

I'm always the best I can be an do everything I can for my friends, support em, comfort em... but its never enough =P I just get used, is there such thing as a good friend anymore?

I feel the same way Arie. Good friends are hard to find and good lovers are even harder to find. Especially for people who are picky about who they want as their lover. I'm a smart, funny, good-looking guy but I'm single a lot more than i'd like.

My problem is that I don't ask people out. You can't sit and wait for people to ask you out and when no one does think that you're not worthy. Even as a girl. You may be so attractive and awesome that guys are intimidated in asking you out and never do because they think they're not worthy. Confidence goes a long way :)

I think I'd really hate to have an ADD girlfriend, especially a hyperactive one. I need someone stable and to remind me that I'm sane.

I'm sure there are positives but it wouldn't work very well with me.

I'm so unconfident, I'm scared. Not scared of rejection, but scared of the talking and making fun of me behind my back that could come with said rejection.

LMAO, HAHAHAH, I have dated two girls in my lifetime, the first, had O.D.D, and the second had ADHD......

The girl with ADHD was SO..MUCH..FUN!

Seriousley, this girl, was INCREADABLEY AWESOME

I used to hang out with a group of ADDers (there were 4 of us, along with outher people with all kinds of disorders) .,..and man...there was NEVER a dull moment...


I would actually go so far as to say, that if I ever married a girl, she would proabley have ADD, becase that is proabley the only way i wouldn[t find her too boaring for myself

True :)




Yea, teenage magazines are on my "top ten list of things that need to be destroyed"

I mean...I actually like it when my GF doesn't wear make-up...when she shows some amount of respect for herself,

I mean, these magizeines pretty much say this "If you don't have X-amount of guys wanting to sleep with you, try destroying your body to look pretty, if that doesn't work, try getting a plastic body instead" lol I never wear make up .All of my "school friends" they all want to do my make up and straten my hair . I laugh at all the girls who have make up caked on. I would not say that i am "confident" in myself but why hate myself ? it is not like i can get a divorse or something lol :) and i wish i had a group of adder lol . And to add to the org post ish. Add guy would be awesome but hopefuly he is on meds or a (semi)mature adder (possible)?

I found its hard to find any guys who can keep up with me!

too true!!! they all get scared off, apparently we're too much 2 handle!!
hahaha x x

it seems to me that all of the guys who are interested in me,
usually end up boring me.
they're looking for excitement because they have none.

anyone else ever feel like that?

I think I'm too zany and unpredictable for most girls. Hmmm a girl with ADHD would be pretty cool.

well i have ADHD and my last boyfreind was able to put up and keep up w/ me. When you find some1 that likes u for who you r, than that will make you feel great!!!!! and i want that feeling!!!!!

for sure

I've yet to find a guy that could keep up with me, or that understands me or appreciates me for me. I don't think I will ever find what I want or need in a teenage guy, looks like I'm gonna have to wait awhile D=

I do have a crush on this one guy, i've never been able to tell him though. I like him alot, and for the most part I normally I wouldn't want a boyfriend shorter then me, but hes great (and he'll probably catch up and pass me by alot XD).

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I want a guy with a sense of humor, but not some bouncing off the walls acting like an immature dork telling dirty sex jokes all the time.

I don't get why guys DON'T like me. Aside from the fact that I'm tall and that automatically intimidates some guys. I'm not fat, am I too outgoing or something? Do ALL guys want a fragile girl and not one that is strong physically and with words?

I'm always the best I can be an do everything I can for my friends, support em, comfort em... but its never enough =P I just get used, is there such thing as a good friend anymore?

Arei:

Okay, so back to H.S. here, at the beginning of 10th grade. CAST (non-ADD version):
Debbie, a skinny, lanky, quick-witted, caring & "uniquely" threaded girl
Jimmy, a frail, gimping, little leader with a great sense of humor
Those were my best friends & they dated each other off and on
Sharon, the pretty, "perfectly" coiffed, sexy little Daddy's girl
Oscar, a latin lothario & smooth basketball jockSo, naturally, I offer my biology tutoring services and frog dissecting (substitute-for-the-squeamish) skills to get close to Sharon. We get close but it's only friends for now.

Oscar, asks Sharon out for fall prom night. She says yes ... I was too late (ADD? Nah, just the jitters). Debbie asks me out as she and Jimmy are on the rocks. I reluctantly agree as she gave me the "I like you" now willies. By the end of the evening, she's managed to cheer me up and we have a fun time. I stop envying Oscar who's being "the man" but not really "close" to Sharon.

Later that school year, Sharon and I date, kiss and just as it's going to get too hot to handle ... my parents have to move way too far away. Only one or two phone calls follow ...

Fast forward to college, about three years later, when I run into Sharon, Debbie and Oscar. Sharon's married but not to Oscar, who's single and not as "cool" as he once seemed to be. Sharon's put on some serious pounds and become a bit too "phony religious." Debbie's dating Sharon's older, cool brother. Debbie is one beautiful, fashionable, super-model-hot, brainy, fun and charming woman. Did I ever choke! I could hardly speak. I knew she knew that I wished I had known then what I knew now! Serves me right ... As for Jimmy, I really don't know what happened to him.

So Arei, hang in there, and confidently develop your skills! There's a bright future for ya'! ;)

P.S. Luv Ur u-name!

Heh heh. Such a great story, Addaway. I can relate, except in my high school, I guess that I was Debbie. Not that I look like a model or anything dumb like that, but because I was always the smart, sort of quirky, sort of jocky, "best all around" girl-next-door type who had lots of boys who were friends and no boyfriends. Until, that is, I took a second look at the class clown, track star hottie who had hit on me so blatantly for years that it had become a little bit of a joke. He turned out to be one great guy.

But high school reunions are really pretty amazing, Arei, because you start to realize how amped up and swirling that time is. This sentence in your post above:

"Not scared of rejection, but scared of the talking and making fun of me behind my back that could come with said rejection."

Says it all, I'm afraid. The ones who would talk behind your back do not matter, honey. Trust me on this one. They will not go far and you will.

If they even do it (talk). See, that's the other thing. One tends to think that other people are talking about oneself. Truth is, everyone's going through the same sets of emotions. The nasty girls who gossip, etc., they are to be avoided, true, but just close your mind to them. They won't be the ones that matter in the end.

I lost most inhibitions (the fear of being talked about) when I was 11 and got a horse. Not sure why that did it for me, but it did. Whatever it takes for you, sports, art, music, academics, etc., whatever it is that tells you that you're AOK, embrace it. Embrace it fully. Know that you are lovable and let the fear fall by the wayside. If you like a boy and he's not interested, his loss, honey. His loss. And anyone who laughs at you for it is also missing something about life. Ten years later he'll be kicking himself, just like old man Addaway up there. ;) (Teasing. Addaway's my bud.) And the upiquitous "they" will all be admiring your nerve and your accomplishments and wishing that they were more like you.

Trust me on this because I was not pretty in high school and I am not beautiful today, but when I went to my high school reunion (and especially when I went with my hubby to his), somehow I was the belle of the ball. Very amusing. Not that it mattered much to me, but of course, that was exactly why it happened that way... :cool:

Sandy

Hm, I have noticed I do tend to argue a bit.. But I do know when to quit.



And about the stupid magazines... No one ever looks like that in real life. And if they do they make me want to punch them because of their stupidity.

The ones who would talk behind your back do not matter, honey. Trust me on this one. They will not go far and you will.

... Truth is, everyone's going through the same sets of emotions. The nasty girls who gossip, etc., they are to be avoided, true, but just close your mind to them. They won't be the ones that matter in the end.

... Whatever it takes for you, sports, art, music, academics, etc., whatever it is that tells you that you're AOK, embrace it. Embrace it fully. Know that you are lovable and let the fear fall by the wayside. If you like a boy and he's not interested, his loss, honey. His loss. And anyone who laughs at you for it is also missing something about life. Ten years later he'll be kicking himself, just like old man Addaway up there. ;) (Teasing. Addaway's my bud.) And the ubiquitous "they" will all be admiring your nerve and your accomplishments and wishing that they were more like you.

Sandy

Such brilliant comments from Sandy, arie. I second them 100%. And, yeah, I kicked myself plenty over Debbie! It's all good now though. :cool: