I am pretty good with conversation and I like to talk and to make others laugh as well as make them feel good about themselves. For some reason, I do not really like guys as friends. I really don't like guys, I just can't relate. (I'm a straight guy) Right now, I just want to make friends, but it is kind of hard to say that, so I don't want to give a girl the impression that Im asking her out. Part of it has to do with not wanting to reveal the screwups from ADD and their results pre-diagnosis. I'm older than my classmates, and most of them are girls-I am an elementary education major. I really do enjoy talking to them and would enjoy their company. I know when someone either is expecting me to ask them out or wants me to. I just seem to either let chances go by, or a couple of times I really messed up any chance by emailing
a rambling message that may come out weird or creepy, but it is just the ADD talking and I don't talk to someone the way it comes out in email. I'm a Christian, so I'm not really into anything physical too soon. Like I said, I just want to make friends. I HATE EMAIL!
Comments? Suggestions?

Unfortuntely, your good nature and easy going ways may end up attracting more than just one girl. But hopefully, if you want to be friends than you can be honest and let those girls know that you just want to be friends.

Now having said that, not every girl will see the good in being just friends with you. Sorry. It's unfortunte, but it's bound to happen.

I would also stick to group activites and try not to be in a lot of situations where you would be alone with a girl. That would probably give the wrong impression. So lots of group study sessions, lunches, etc.

And I certainly wouldn't give up on good ol' fashioned male bonding either!