Things seem to be doing much better on the home front. I am happy not to be b#tching about my wife again as I am sure some of you all are too. We have had a really good week. My wife seems to have taken to heart some of the things I metioned in our last fight. The last couple of fights have been the first ones where I have stood up for myself and not just rolled over. We seem to both be making an effort to work on the issues that were bothering the other person. We have been home sick until yesterday so we were with each other all day. We did quite well together. I guesss will see how things go. I know it is only a short time, but this is the first I have seen my wife really make an effort to change some of her behaviors and not be always lokking for every little mistake or thing I do she does not like.

That's good to hear! I hope things continue to look up!

That's awesome, Biking. I'm glad things are starting to improve.

That's great about standing up for yourself.....:)

And it's also great about progress with the other person.....(your wife's sister?????)

Thanks everyone. I am starting to get some self confidense and realize that to meet others need I have to meet my own 1st.
Who knows, I will probably writing on Mon to complain again.

Joan,
The issue was actually between my wife and my sister. My wife decided it was not worth making a big deal about it.

:cool:

Here's to a great weekend Biking. Very encouraging to hear. If you are both committed to change, things will change... I hope for the better, and something to build on.