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sesser
01-22-04, 01:10 AM
Hey ADD site members,
My name is Seth Nidever and I think I have some form of ADDH (I'm not clear on whether it is more attention deficit or hyperactivity). I'm 31 years old and managed to graduate college, although it has since been difficult trying to break through into a career path. I taught high school for three years (1999-2002) but it was a nightmare trying to focus on the that monumental task. It was so difficult I feel like a war veteran. It's hard for me to express how difficult it really was.

Anyway, I was struggling, and the school fired me after three years. That really hurt given that I was pouring every ounce of energy and effort I had to do the job.

I have often felt that I am doomed to lower-level kinds of work (i.e. jobs without benefits) because they require a lower level of concentration and organization. Hence, I feel comfortable substitute teaching because it allows my mind a certain freedom to be "out of focus," if you will.

Anybody out there identify with this?

Only recently have I begun to feel hope that I can in fact become a newspaper writer and actually hold down a salaried position without having a 24/7 feeling that I can barely keep going! I think this is because I have started taking a mineral supplement called Empower Plus manufactured by a non-profit org called Truehope. I feel a lot calmer and a lot more focused than before, although my mind still drifts somewhat.

I look forward to connecting with some of you out there who have also been fighting against similar symptoms.

God bless!

Garry
01-22-04, 01:20 AM
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As I am very lazy when it comes to typing so I have created a welcome page and ADDed a link here to get you there

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Garry


My two friends are also using there product for there bipolar disorder with ammazzing results

Id be interested in hearing how you do with it with the add

Check my webpage for lots of good links to good stuff and welcome to your new home

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sesser
01-22-04, 01:29 AM
Nice to meet you (virtually)! I have just starting taking the mineral supplement but have already felt dramatically better. I don't have health insurance, so its self-treatment or nothing!

The supplement is practically bankrupting me (current dosage = almost $150/mo.), but I'd rather be dirt poor and calm than living in Beverly Hills and constantly feeling on the verge of putting a gun to my head.

waywardclam
01-22-04, 01:59 AM
Welcome Sesser... I would post a more detailed hello... but I am falling asleep on my keyboard here... ro; n fcb snfcm, dfdffddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd ddddddddddddd

Draga
01-22-04, 02:07 AM
Welcome to the forums..this place is the best. I can relate about job the last two jobs I have had...... one only lasted a day...the next a week...both the head honcho bosses thought I wasn't mentally stable enough to handle the job....and it was just cleaning and selling cologne/perfume!

I hope you will like it here as much as I do. Take care hope to hear from ya soon.

Ian
01-22-04, 02:14 AM
Welcome aboard sesser.
I hope you can poke around the forums here until you find some people and information that can help you along.. but now..it's zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ehhe
Cheers! Ian.

Tara
01-22-04, 08:48 AM
Welcome to ADD Forums!!! I'm sure you will find some great support here!!!

FlakeyGirl
01-22-04, 10:22 AM
Welcome Seth! That is so cool you were (are) a high school teacher. You didn't say how much of a toll the kids took on you.;) Good luck and stick around!

Christiana
01-23-04, 01:01 AM
Hi Seth! nice to meet you!! I've never taught a class but i can see how it would be hard!! what subject did you teach?

Nucking_Futs
01-23-04, 05:06 AM
Hello Seth, First let me welcome you and to let you know that not only will you find the most amazing ppl in these forums, who are not only supportive; but, educated and have had many of the same experiances. Sometime's it's enough to know that you are not alone.

Second of all please keep in mind that ADD/ADHD cannot be controlled by meds alone, you need to incorporate other focusing tactics also. We have found therapy, yogo, timers and post it notes to be of a great service to my children and myself.

I have been thru many jobs myself looking for the one that fit me; alway's feeling like something was wrong with me, that I was flawed in some way (diagnosed late in life). It was nice to know that something physically was wrong and that I was not just a mental case. The next step was to figure out what my strengths were and how I was going to make ADHD work for me.

I changed profession's to something more challenging with a faster pace and were thing's were never the same everyday and have found this to work for me well. I am not advising you to change jobs; but, look at it from another angle...Perhaps you just need a motivator to stay focused-- there are alot of kid's out there who NEED teachers who can relate to them and show them how to conquere the world,,,so do not give up the faith,,,we are praying for you.

I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find the forums and those in them as helpful and supportive as I have. WELCOME!!!! (and I sure hope your not a English teacher lmao).

pembroke
01-24-04, 10:36 PM
amazing isn't it? we adders are such intelligent people, just can't seem to translate it into everyday mundane usage....
Hang in there, you will find the right job for you, maybe even teaching (try a lower level?)
welcome and good luck.