well all the stress I have been feeling at work latley was not all me. Part of my problem is that I seem to internalize everything going on around me and make it to personal. well at my work there was a gal there, been there for over five years and I really liked her and most of us really looked up to her and thought she really kept things together there. well she got a realy bad review week before last(I really cant imagine that.) she was told that her coments bring the rest of down and that she has a bad additude latley. well this morning she came in and put her letter of resignation in the bosses mail box and walked out. so now we are three skills trainers short. really hit the other skill trainers hard. I know of two others that have said that if Lorie leaves they will not be far behind. So it really looks like we are in for a bumpy ride coming up the next few months. I know what does not kill us will make us stronger, but boy, going from one job a year ago with all its stuff, now this. :faint: One thing that I see though is that the manager and I get along very well. I hve yet to have any thing negitive said about me in any of my reviews.(we get them once a month.) I dont know mabe I should start looking over my shoulder more, but I did that for two years and dont want to have to do it again. I am going to just watch for a while and see how things play out. It will be intresting though. been thru bumpy times before and will again.