Many thanks to all who sent public and private messages of support to me.

The crisis is over for now. Some of it was my fault. I will post more about it later, perhaps, but for now, thank you all... and I am ok for now, and still happily married. (And more or less happily employed. :D )

GOOD!!! (what a relief!!)

glad to hear it's alright now!:)

Great!!! I'm glad things are going well for you!!!!

I'm glad. However, the offer extended to you still stands :)

WOO HOO for YOU and your precious family!! :D :D

No, Paul... Thank you!! You have covered topics that have lead me to my own short comings and really gave me things to think about. Thank you!