Michiko74
09-26-07, 10:55 PM
I remember the two phrases I used to hate hearing was "it's ok to make mistakes" and "there's no such thing as a stupid question." Well if those two events revealed something inferior about yourself, then yeah, making mistakes was horrible and yes there was such a thing as a stupid question.
Looking at my past, I realized that one of the reasons why I hated making mistakes is because I was afarid they would reveal my ADD. Of course back then I had no way of knowing it was ADD. I just knew I didn't want to look stupid.
Here's an example of my 'stupidity.' An orange is round, whole piece of fruit right? Now you cut that orange into diffferent slices, and you still have an orange right? No wrong. An orange and orange slices are two very seperate and different things.
I know it sounds totally nutty, but I couldn't explain to people that my mind saw two very different, albeit similar, looking items.
:( *sigh* Sometimes I remember some very painful things about my past. While it's good to know that there is a name to what I have, the memories still have the ability to make me sad.
Looking at my past, I realized that one of the reasons why I hated making mistakes is because I was afarid they would reveal my ADD. Of course back then I had no way of knowing it was ADD. I just knew I didn't want to look stupid.
Here's an example of my 'stupidity.' An orange is round, whole piece of fruit right? Now you cut that orange into diffferent slices, and you still have an orange right? No wrong. An orange and orange slices are two very seperate and different things.
I know it sounds totally nutty, but I couldn't explain to people that my mind saw two very different, albeit similar, looking items.
:( *sigh* Sometimes I remember some very painful things about my past. While it's good to know that there is a name to what I have, the memories still have the ability to make me sad.