I am about to lose everything. I have lost everything many times and started over many times, but never past my 30's.

I would love to find a solution with my wife but she has an unrealistic outlook and viewpoint. Yes, I have tried the angle you are about to post.

My wife spies on me and treats me as the enemy! Questioning my every move and how things got to this point.

She had no problem spending tons of money during the good years. I hear the Sam Kinison routine in the background. We just are not on the same page- in good times nor bad. CE LA VIE!

Bottomline, I am going to lose my ***. Yes, I do have a snowballs chance to keep everything glued together and quite possibly recover. But for what?

To be married to a miserable person and no S-E-X? LOADS OF FUN!

A clean slate almost sounds like an orgasm! I am lost, but I do want to figure it out, if nothing more than to buy myself more time to have more options.

Pray I make wise decisions, because I am a basketcase right now. I am a fighter and survivor, but as you get older, having to get back in the ring and take bodyshots does take more out of you.

Shiny, New, WHERE DO I SIGN UP?

I will pray for you as you asked.

I hope that things on that end will unfold better for you than you are anticipating them to. You certainlly sound like a fighter & a survivor to me.

Please keep us posted on how things unfold, and know that there will be many people here who read your post who will be hoping and praying for the best to unfold on that end.

Marital VS. ADD VS. I dont give a #$% !!!

OK,

So I come up with a gameplan to overcome the challenges I face. My wife loves to COUNTER