like your parents arguing with you?
like your brother and sister arguing with you?
like your husband or wife or boyfriend and girlfriend arguing with you?

with your actions thats hard to controll with your problems they dont seem to understand is not my fault with the things i do

My mum used to get frustrated with me for not doing things like:

Washing the dishes
Tidying my room
Keeping things tidy

But after 16 years of constant argueing, I think she has finally given up on the stress. lol

tell her to teach my parents heheMy mum used to get frustrated with me for not doing things like:

Washing the dishes
Tidying my room
Keeping things tidy

But after 16 years of constant argueing, I think she has finally given up on the stress. lol

yeah defnitely. i have 3 brothers and 2 sisters.
2 of my bros live with us with there girlfriends. the other bro stays with us like maybe one week each month. my 2 sisters are both younger than me and one lives with us with her boyfriend (he is a word i shouldnt say on here) and my other sister lives with her boyfriend 20 mins away.
my uncle and my koro (grandad) also lives with us and then theres my dad.
all the males in my family have anger, alchohol and drug problems. When they get drunk they get abusive and take it out on me and call me names and stuff. Mainly cuz im the only one without a girlfriend in teh family so my dad keeps sayin that im gay. my sisters boyfriend tries to humiliate me at every situation that he can. he thinks hes the man cuz hes in this tough gang or some crap.
cant wait to move away!

Mom, I love her, but sometimes she drives me nuts..telling me how to do things I already know how to do even if sometimes it's different than her way...would it be too much to ask to trust my judgement sometimes....well sometimes she does, but when she don't....lets just say when my shrink asked me to discribe my relationship with mom I told him "She's the P*** and I am the electric fense!" LMAO

I argue constantly, part of ADHD is an unconscious desire to stimulate things like arguments or push people's buttons. When the brain is understimulated, then what?

I argue constantly, part of ADHD is an unconscious desire to stimulate things like arguments or push people's buttons. When the brain is understimulated, then what?

Then life is like a box of chawk-lets... :D

Sounds about right... :)

Sounds about right... :)

Hehe, that y I am glad there is the internet...pogo and add forums and other great stuff on the net keeps my mind busy and actually helps keep the peace in the house...I got mom hooked on pogo so there is a lot of quaility time spent and at the same time, I talk to her bout stuff that goes on in my head sometimes, after talking bout it here 1st of course. ;)

whats pogo?
is that one of those pole things that you bounce on?

yes one of doeswhats pogo?
is that one of those pole things that you bounce on?

whats pogo?
is that one of those pole things that you bounce on?


Yeah there is that but also pogo is a game site with a bunch of games that help keep my "ADD on disability mind" occupied so I dont wind up saying "I'm not a smart man but I know what chawk-lets is!" :p :D

Between me and my mom, yeah. I go berzerk and start mentioning all the irresponsible crud she does as a mom. I can easily tell she has ADD and she denies me or her having it. It's all these little stupid things she does and she can't do anything right as well. With my dad though, never b/c honestly, he's a good man.

A bit off topic though, I managed to punch a hole through my wall because I was so fed up with myself not being to do s*** right. Calmed down afterwards though...

Sounds like you have a lot of interpersonal conflict and fractured relationships in your life.

Gary and I have our moments but I do not think we argue any more than the average couple. I rarely argue with my mom, off spring or siblings= not living with them helps.

I am not especially argumentative and I do look for ways to get along with others. I tend to be hyper but I am generally easy going. I am willing to negotiate and compromise but I do have my limits which are well known to those close to me.

With me it is a combination of living near and associating with conflict addicted BPD's and again my, what seems to be unconscious desire to push people's button's

have any of you seen the movie Once Were Warriors?
well that is honestly what my house is like!