View Full Version : When and How?


blueyeyore
10-25-07, 10:56 PM
So..I'm 22...I was just diagnosed ADHD last month...anyway...had a bad break up earlier this year, but I'm finally starting to date again and actually like some of the guys I date. It's kind of been on my mind though when is the right time to tell someone and how do you tell them?

movingshadow
10-26-07, 01:55 AM
I don't know I never had a date before.

MaNaeSWolf
10-26-07, 09:56 AM
think you should wait for some married people with love experiance to answer that one.

I suppose you should do something nice for that person, let him know over some romantic candle light under a starry sky. . . . or something like that.

Id like to think that is how it should work. I have been single for 3 years now, and my commitment phobia has helped me stay single over that time even though I really liked this one girl a while back. . . . now its too late. . . . so i say just go for it.

MissAdhd
10-26-07, 10:29 AM
my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs.. he was the first one i ever told that i dated.

i don't think u should tell unless you have an actual relationship going..

And present it ina way that doesn't make it seem a negative. I think the way it's presented will be influenced by the individual and yourself.. it's personal and isn't really cookie cutter answered.