people tell him why i call allot is that bad do they not like me for saying that already they say is weird i call allot

the reason i call allot cause we communicate on aim but he side tracks so on phone he doesn't side track on me

This is the third post I've seen where you're having another issue with your relationship with Matt. Especially considering int he last one you said he has never been in a relationship before, than you need to let the man breathe some... he is not used to having a woman up his rear end, checking his every move...it takes time and getting used to.

He doesn't consider your feelings in a situation because he has never really had to consider someone else's feelings. He is used to being Mr. Bachelor Stud and doing what he wants to do without thinking about anyone else. Time and understanding are what it is going to take if you want to make this work...
That is my nice helpful advice for the day, but if it was me...I would just drop him rather then stress myself out with the concerns/drama....it ain't worth it.

"teaching" someone how to have basic respect for another person is really not the best way to start a new relationship.

It's one thing to be new to relationships, it's another to just be wrapped up in your own wants and emotions you really ignore the other person's feelings.

I wish I had something more positive to add to your concerns, but I think you're just fighting a losing battle.

we just going thru bumpy roads

Each relationship is different. Personally, I'm not the type of girl to smother a guy. By smother, I mean 'be up in his business 24/7'. *wink*

I'm affectionate in public, but I'm not crawling all over him. I call him when I need something, but I don't bug him non-stop because he is busy. I don't hound him for attention, because that can get really tiresome. Etc etc etc.

A couple of the guys at work have spouses that call constantly. It makes me feel bad for their wives (to a degree) when I say their wife is on the phone AGAIN....and they roll their eyes and beg me to say they're on another line. They just get sick of the constant chatter and monitoring.

But again, every relationship is different, right?