I was wondering if anyone here was also like me in the sense that they constantly had to think about someone else. I find that i always need to 'like' someone, and that I can never be comfortable when I have no one in mind. i find that my mind warps the way i think of a girl to make me like them even though i know it would never work. . if that makes sense. I was kind of wondering if it was an ADD thing or not.

I was wondering if anyone here was also like me in the sense that they constantly had to think about someone else. I find that i always need to 'like' someone, and that I can never be comfortable when I have no one in mind. i find that my mind warps the way i think of a girl to make me like them even though i know it would never work. . if that makes sense. I was kind of wondering if it was an ADD thing or not.
aahhgg!! I'm the opposite...I don't like it when I think about someone all the time...It hurts my head..:eek:

I'd rather not think about the same thing all day:D

I did experience that earlier last year...I never saw it as a problem until that person went a little woo-woo and started calling me 13 times a day...telling me how I didn't care and I shouldn't go hang out with my friends. After about a month of forcing myself to go to church with this person and dressing "more conservatively" around his family(I'm sorry they're D's you can't hide those no matter how many clothes you put on). I had myself convinenced that I really liked him. It just took one instance of him being his clingyanxiety self and I realized real quick....NOPE...I want to be free...of everyone. For the first time in I'd say 8 years....I'm not with anyone and I'm having a ball. It wasn't easy at first, especially considering we worked together but free is so much more me...well since I've been medicated. *shrugs* I guess I needed something to occupy my mind before hand.I was wondering if anyone here was also like me in the sense that they constantly had to think about someone else. I find that i always need to 'like' someone, and that I can never be comfortable when I have no one in mind. i find that my mind warps the way i think of a girl to make me like them even though i know it would never work. . if that makes sense. I was kind of wondering if it was an ADD thing or not.

I just think that guys are perhaps a bit more "clingy" than females - not really an add issue just a companionship - or lack thereof - issue. I am in no way a "dr phil" on the subject but that would be my un-educated guess.

I just think that guys are perhaps a bit more "clingy" than females - not really an add issue just a companionship - or lack thereof - issue. I am in no way a "dr phil" on the subject but that would be my un-educated guess.


Really? Guys more clingy than females? Wow...well being female I would have to say that story above is the first clingy male I ever come across and it weirded me out...big time. It was more he was the female of the relationship.

hmm, i may not have explained myself properly, im not a particularly proficient writer. I know im not clingy in the very sterotypical sort of way. Im not one of those guys who break down and freak out when their girlfriend isnt around. For example i was in a 10 month relationship, 4 months of which were long distance, and it went fine.

What im trying to get at is that need to feel emotionally connected to someone. I guess I just enjoy having that company of a significant other, in an emotional sense.