when i cant do it and make it sound like im full of cra-p if i don't understand something believe me don't keep saying i can do it people that can do something assume is easy and someone else can do it cause is easy for them to do it pi-ss-es me off

when i cant do it and make it sound like im full of cra-p if i don't understand something believe me don't keep saying i can do it people that can do something assume is easy and someone else can do it cause is easy for them to do it pi-ss-es me offI hear you there marytza...
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me too

it annoys me allotI hear you there marytza...
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me too

I'm over it..but it used to :-)

most of my marriage has been that way. "here's a list, just do it". or "I could do this with my eyes closed, you have all day, what's the problem?"

now that I can shove my AhA!! at him " I have ADD you tard, THAT'S why i couldn't do IT!!!!!" I'm quite smug.

he still doesn't get it, but I DO!

So, I don't care if he thinks I'm retarded because I can't remember something he told me 12 times. If he didn't write it on my calendar, *because I've learned to remember to look at my calendar, not listen to him 12 times* then he's the idiot because I told HIM TWENTY times, "if you want me to remember it WRITE IT ON THE ******* CALENDAR!!!" :p

i understand your views tomost of my marriage has been that way. "here's a list, just do it". or "I could do this with my eyes closed, you have all day, what's the problem?"

now that I can shove my AhA!! at him " I have ADD you tard, THAT'S why i couldn't do IT!!!!!" I'm quite smug.

he still doesn't get it, but I DO!

So, I don't care if he thinks I'm retarded because I can't remember something he told me 12 times. If he didn't write it on my calendar, *because I've learned to remember to look at my calendar, not listen to him 12 times* then he's the idiot because I told HIM TWENTY times, "if you want me to remember it WRITE IT ON THE ******* CALENDAR!!!" :p

I'm still working on this one, and realizing that some people will never "get it", for whatever reason, and if I can accept myself the way I am, then I don't have to take their judgmental views so personally. I just have to view them as uneducated about what I have to go through, and why, to do something that might seem simple to them.

The only person I can change is (maybe) myself. The only thing I can change about other people is my attitude towards them.

It still bothers me though, sometimes a lot. I haven't really got the self acceptance thing down yet.