you give them something to do or tell them to look for work and they always say they cant before trying to do it and always gives up so fast before trying it ?

Sounds like you are my family asking about me.

haha for realSounds like you are my family asking about me.

If someone is afraid of doing something without making an attempt, it's probably because they're afraid of failure and/or embarassment.

I was always told one of the oldest sayings in the book, "Can't never could."

thats what i was thinking is easy to give up then tryingIf someone is afraid of doing something without making an attempt, it's probably because they're afraid of failure and/or embarassment.

I was always told one of the oldest sayings in the book, "Can't never could."

If someone is afraid of doing something without making an attempt, it's probably because they're afraid of failure and/or embarassment.

Yee, tru dat.

It's embarrassing to start a new job, asking a million questions that make the person ****ed off at you and hate you right from the beginning, but you only want to do your job properly and to the best of your ability, or you can't remember long lists given to you verbally, or you forget to do something. Then they start pouncing on you for little mistakes and time management skills and inattention to details, and start to make little jabs about your intelligence, even when you know they are a ****ing retard and you are flying circles around their small detailed oriented mind with your global big picture oriented right brained mind... so you try hard to be respectful to said assmunch when his pouncing becomes more bold and more disrespectful, then you start using your wit to make much better insults to him. Culminating in an action similar to this one: He asks for a nail and you give it to him lodged between your outstretched middle finger and ring finger. Then he replaces you.

Then you got to tell everyone that knows you that you are off another job... I guess now that shouldn't bother me, they are used to me "not sticking to anything".

is hard to deal with that but you can get over it like i have with many jobs i had beforeYee, tru dat.

It's embarrassing to start a new job, asking a million questions that make the person ****ed off at you and hate you right from the beginning, but you only want to do your job properly and to the best of your ability, or you can't remember long lists given to you verbally, or you forget to do something. Then they start pouncing on you for little mistakes and time management skills and inattention to details, and start to make little jabs about your intelligence, even when you know they are a ****ing retard and you are flying circles around their small detailed oriented mind with your global big picture oriented right brained mind... so you try hard to be respectful to said assmunch when his pouncing becomes more bold and more disrespectful, then you start using your wit to make much better insults to him. Culminating in an action similar to this one: He asks for a nail and you give it to him lodged between your outstretched middle finger and ring finger. Then he replaces you.

Then you got to tell everyone that knows you that you are off another job... I guess now that shouldn't bother me, they are used to me "not sticking to anything".

i would ask more open ended questions (how do you, what's stopping you, when has this happened before - question that need more than a 1 word answer) to try and find out why (without saying why) they aren't even willing to try...if that person can actnolege why they don't wanna do it you can work on the problem....but they have to tell you what the problem is first

I wouln't tell anyone what to do with thier life. I don't have that right, plus i can barely get mine organised.