SonWithAdhd
02-23-04, 02:39 PM
It seems he's always had a problem with finding things to do. It's as if his ability of creative thinking has never been very good. So instead of coming up with something good to do, he'll come up with a completely wrong thing to do, like color on his furniture rather than color on paper, or whine nonstop to me about being bored when has a million toys in his room. I don't grasp this concept for a couple reasons.
#1, I was always taught that you're only as bored as you want to be. Therefore you have to "think" of things to do. Use your imagination & create something.
#2, my 3 1/2 yr old has an amazing imagination & can occupy herself for hours with new things to do. Very creative, very inventive, rarely if ever "bored".
Why is he like this? Is it just part of the ADHD brain & how it works that he can't slow down enough to figure out something fun & constructive (rather than destructive) to do? Can I help him in this area to be more creative or inventive?
#1, I was always taught that you're only as bored as you want to be. Therefore you have to "think" of things to do. Use your imagination & create something.
#2, my 3 1/2 yr old has an amazing imagination & can occupy herself for hours with new things to do. Very creative, very inventive, rarely if ever "bored".
Why is he like this? Is it just part of the ADHD brain & how it works that he can't slow down enough to figure out something fun & constructive (rather than destructive) to do? Can I help him in this area to be more creative or inventive?