View Full Version : please help- advice on intimate issue


batty
09-20-08, 12:22 AM
i posted this in the reg adult add forum, then saw the womens thread....
Hi- this is very awkward and first and foremost, i am not trying to be vulger or offend anyone in any way. I have been on add meds for almost two months- and i can honestly say, i have never felt better. i am 32 and i have two huge issues that i wanted to get feedback on. first, i love sex....crave it as i love my partner deeply- lately- i just feel very friendly, not turned on---anyone else?
second and this is a little graphic- but we both enjoy oral sex and since being on the medication he says i taste very bitter.....which makes me uncomfortable as i know he enjoyed that before. is this a side affect? is there anything i can do to change that?
please any advice on both issues really appreciated- esp the really private issue. and no, my diet has not changed.
thanks

lollypop
09-20-08, 09:49 AM
I personally dont take meds so cant comment on any negative side effects from that but I do know that what you eat and drink is meant to affect your taste so suspect the same applies to medications taken into the body.

I dont know if anything can be done about that but if no one has any other ideas perhaps its worth buying some flavoured lubricants or body paints?

Just a thought :)

xraylady33
09-20-08, 02:18 PM
OH MY!!!! I will attempt this>>>VULGAR? never..you are a woman, on a quest to discover how to enlighten her endeavor. Sex...never vulgar!
What medication are you on? Often meds will dampen libido! Unfortunately!

On the girl side...
As a woman, you will experience the highs and lows of intercourse and oral stimulation. You will endure many sensories..some of which are not always the same, and your hormones play a huge part of this. Often times you will be more aroused right before menstruation, and less two days after. As your body ages..daily! the hormones change...but the good thing is..you have the MENTAL ability to change this. SERIOUSLY!
When you find you are engaging in a "MOMENT"...don't visit what you think will be less pleasurable for your partner, but how wonderful this will be. RELAX..don't wonder how the taste has changed..or if you are not as aroused...just let go...it will help.
I seriously have been there, and constantly questioned if i was losing the love I once felt...when indeed, I had just lost the ability to enjoy..worrying about him!
YOU WILL KNOW!
Remember hormones....they vary daily..month to month..year to year..even if you are on birth control..hormones regulate the whole body..not just your ovaries.

Taste...
This could be dehydration....bacteria...increased garlic, or cloves! Try some tea with honey...natural...or maybe no coffee, or dark soda for a few days! High carbs will restore yeast, and protein will cause bitterness.

I tried to keep this light...if you have some "private" concerns...PM me...
I am a woman..and I seriously know what your saying.
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