View Full Version : How do I honestly look?


sarey
10-14-08, 04:57 PM
Tell me truthies.
Self esteem-ey not-y so good-y.

http://i36.tinypic.com/2eol35x.jpg

prtsimmons
10-14-08, 05:12 PM
You look great.

Every time you look in a mirror, point at your reflection and say, "Lookin' good, you sexy beast." It works for me ; )

sarey
10-14-08, 05:46 PM
lol nice technique :]

thank yoouuu
I just needs self esteem booster most the time HAHA.
thankyou<3

runinl8
10-14-08, 05:56 PM
Very young is my first thought. Quite pretty is my second.

xraylady33
10-15-08, 10:36 AM
Like an Angel...
about 14 maybe....innocent....and sweet....

Enjoy your youth, as spending day worrying about appearence will hinder the years of self expression.
You are beautiful, young and vibrant....embrace it....live it, love it, be it....be you!
X

olavia
10-15-08, 12:18 PM
adorable!

Mincan
10-15-08, 12:52 PM
cute...

whitestripesfan
10-15-08, 04:05 PM
HI SAREY, I Totally agree with all the above quotes,i think you look very pretty and cute, a great combination, anytime you feel differently just take another look at this page. sometimes your perceptions can play tricks on you, or sometimes its more just a reflection of how you feel in side, but take it from us ......your lookin good !:)

sarek
10-15-08, 05:36 PM
You're beautiful. You radiate somehow.

sarey
10-15-08, 05:46 PM
What does radiate mean?

Thank you all so much for your comments
I REALLY appreciate them
<3<3<3 lovelovelove
xx

sloppitty-sue
10-15-08, 07:44 PM
omg . . . You are SUPER ADORABLE! Wicked CUTE with an understated beauty to use at your discretion.


Sincerely,
Sue

Mark73777
10-15-08, 11:25 PM
Very Pretty... Stay away from the boys lol

Like the person above said... Don't waste your time dwelling on your beauty....

God designed your every fiber, so take it as it is :)

sarey
10-16-08, 06:29 AM
I got bullied because of how I look. Tis a reason why I started having trouble eating. Has become such a huge issue now. Thank you all for your comments.
*cuddles all* thankyou<3x

sarek
10-16-08, 07:53 AM
What does radiate mean?



That is hard to explain, its is something extra, an intangible quality beyond merely the way you look.

sarey
10-16-08, 08:05 AM
Aww thank you sarek. :) <3 You're all so nice&tolerable of me. haha.

whitestripesfan
10-16-08, 09:05 AM
HI YA SAREY Gld your feeling a little better about yourself, kids can be really cruel at school, don't listen to their negative comments, or it will just eat you up, who knows what motivates people to be so mean. i ve had trouble with dismorphia all my life, and it can reach dreadful proportions, please don't go that route, your only young with a helluva lot going for ya, take it from me. ps eating disorders such as anorexia nervosa and binge eating or all manifestations of dismorphia, have you ever seen the book THE BROKEN MIRROR Its helped a lot of people, if you need any more info just feel free to contact me o.k ! love WHITESTRIPES X:)

Punch
10-16-08, 09:06 AM
I'm a guy and i think you look great.

But you look like you could use a hamburger or two lol

sarey
10-16-08, 09:53 AM
What do you mean by that? ^^

Thank you, I will try getting that book :)

whitestripesfan
10-16-08, 11:47 AM
HI AGAIN SAREY, JUST A QUICK NOTE TO SAY THE BOOK I MENTIONED IS BY KATHERINE A PHILLIPS, ITS FULL TITLE IS 'THE BROKEN MIRROR' -UNDERSTANDING AND TREATING BODY DYSMORPHIA (SORRY SPELT DYSMORPHIA WRONG IN MY LAST POST) YOU CAN GET SECOND HAND COPIES FROM AMAZON, WHICH WORKS OUT A BIT CHEAPER) REALLY HOPE IT HELPS, LOVE WHITESTRIPES X

Mark73777
10-16-08, 12:24 PM
Radiate:to send out rays : shine brightly

Beauty bursting from the inner core of your personality.. (me)

meriellyn
10-16-08, 03:00 PM
Kids can be mean. Believe me, it's not you; it's them. It know it's super hard not to take it personally though.
I was picked on in middle school and ended up with food issues too. :(
*hugs*

sarey
10-16-08, 03:35 PM
*hugs*^^ I'm sorry hun x

Thank you all
And thank you whitestrip, I'll look into getting it soon :)

whitestripesfan
10-17-08, 07:18 AM
very best of luck Sarey, the main thing to remember is not to keep ya feelings all bottled up, think you showed great maturity, asking for advice. so message me if you ever need to,take good care WHITESTRIPES X:D

Mantis
10-17-08, 08:17 AM
You look cute! Hehe

Louder Than Love
10-17-08, 08:25 PM
You are indeed beautiful.

sarey
10-17-08, 08:31 PM
Thank you so much... made me smile...

Song of Mercy
10-20-08, 12:49 PM
Didnt read the last couple of post but if no one mentioned it...I love the little bow on the shirt...it seems to summerize the pic.

I learned more about you in this post than that you wonder if you look ok. You are a beautifully transparent and selfless person...we all wonder about ourselves...so thanks for the reflection of our own inner turmoil.

Love, Song.

pbsc7
10-20-08, 01:50 PM
You look like you'd be a great friend, very compassionate and empathetic.

EYEFORGOT
10-24-08, 02:26 PM
First thought: adorable, sweet, cute

It takes a while to learn sometimes, but why do we need to keep up with standards of beauty that are set by others? This is the DNA passed out to me. All the beautiful things work together.

Check this out: http://www.dove.us/#/CFRB/GirlsOnly/default.aspx/ (http://www.dove.us/#/CFRB/GirlsOnly/default.aspx/)

sarey
10-24-08, 02:31 PM
Will check that out ^^

Thank you, yes I was in my PJS, hence the bow LOL. I have a bunch of weird, yet cute PJs, comfy too.

Thank you, I just used to get bullied a lot and I was&still do have really bad self esteem moments, but I'll just check back here when I feel them and I'll know that at least here I am liked. Not just for my looks either. :)

bailee33
10-24-08, 02:37 PM
Hey, there is some really good therapy and meds that help with disordered eating. Please don't let this go for very much longer without help. It will haunt you your entire life if you don't deal with it now. It will, the disease (eating disorder) take your life!! If you need advice, suggestions, etc. please feel free to ask. You can send me a personl email if you'd like.
Cheers:)

sarey
10-24-08, 02:40 PM
Oh the eating has been going on for about 4 years now, but it's okay, I have good support from people and I see an eating disorder specialist, so it's not like it's going unseen too. Thank you though.

EYEFORGOT
10-24-08, 02:52 PM
Will check that out ^^

Thank you, yes I was in my PJS, hence the bow LOL. I have a bunch of weird, yet cute PJs, comfy too.

Thank you, I just used to get bullied a lot and I was&still do have really bad self esteem moments, but I'll just check back here when I feel them and I'll know that at least here I am liked. Not just for my looks either. :)

A fellow PJs conoseur (sp?). Mine are all warm and cute and fuzzy socks to go with them. I spend all day in them as often as possible. I think they look better on me than regular clothes.

sarey
10-24-08, 02:57 PM
Haha, I like baggy things, so right now, because I'm quite cold easily, I am wearing a pink and white jammy, I have my long grey trosours(bit like tracksuit bottoms, cept so much more comfy) and I have this REALLY baggy grey jumper sorta like thing over the nighty. hehe, I love being in PJs, I feel all comfy&me like.