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Beep!
04-22-04, 08:42 PM
(long read)

This is just my own personal observation drawn from about 13 years as a teacher of children 7-10 years of age. I feel the need to share a few things and it may or may not be of use to any parents or other educators. The opinion shared in this thread is my own and reflects only my personal observations and thoughts.

First of all, I have never assumed to diagnose ADHD or even give a verbal prediction. I am also professionally diagnosed as ADHD Inattentive Type, myself and currently take Adderall XR (meaning, I am VERY familiar with the roller coaster that medication can drive, i.e. excellent upsides, unpleasant downsides).

Over the past 13 years, I have had dozens of students who have been on various medications for ADHD. I have observed how children have demonstrated various behaviors in the classroom as medications have been switched, forgotten, doseages have been altered, etc.

Though I have had several dozens, I'll take a sample student from the current school year, male 8 years old, on medication for 2 years, and I'll call him "M". I have had the pleasure of his company for those 2 years. (He really is a neat kid!)

M is an extremely bright child. He lives in a very rural area and his home is far removed from town activity. His parents are divorced and his father is more absent than present in his life. M is quite articulate and has a rich vocabulary and is more adult than child in his depth of perception regarding mature matters.

M is combative at times, argumentative, unwilling to take risks. He is also very self-assured, thinks of himself as quite the ladies man (at 8! so cute!). He questions everything, even directions and instructions. (Actually, not always a bad thing.)

In the past 2 school years, M has been on at least 6 different medication trials. He has switched homeroom teachers several times. Some work with him, some don't (workload, impatience, too many students to tend to in a single classroom to give more individualized attention, lack of understanding of ADHD).

Last year he had several melt-downs due to frustrations. Counseling may or may not have helped. This year he has had numerous parent-teacher conferences. His grades are good. His work habits are irregular and his attitude changes daily.

I am not M's regular classroom teacher. I am his G/T teacher (gifted/talented). Though I do talk to his classroom teacher often.

Earlier this year, M was taking Adderall. He did fairly well but then declined. Then he was on Strattera for a few weeks after spring break. The first 2 weeks were wonderful. After that he was rude to other students, argumentative and would not complete any assignment, even modified ones. He personally hated Strattera and said it made him feel bad and he knew it made him act badly. Last week he changed to Ritalin. The first day was wonderful. The next several days he told other students how ulgy they were, how much he hated them, he was frustrated and refused to complete even the most simplified assignment. He states that he likes the new medication. It has "fixed' him and taken over his body.

His regular classroom teacher informed me that medications become ineffective over time. We are talking a few weeks here, do understand ...in her comment. (Horrid lack of interest in research or just general lack of education on the matter!)
His mother is riding this bungee cord with M's regular classroom teachers. Switching doctors and medications with the same regularity that some switch toothbrushes or plug in air freshners. I am not sure what the expectations of M's classroom teachers might include. A pill will not "fix" M. M is not broken. However, M must grow to understand that he also has a level of responsibility to require of himself.

M and I have a weekly after class meeting. I ask him how he feels. How his medication is doing. If he has been aware of how other people react to some of the possible down sides of his medication. We discuss strategies that may help him interact with others in a more positive manner. What he might do to help himself recognize when he needs to step aside and take a deep breath before a frustrating situation gets worse.

I try very hard to be an advocate for my ADHD students on medication. But it also becomes very frusrating when I see that most of these students are not only challenged with school requirements, but also parents that are quick to switch doctors and medications, teachers that think a pill will fix everything and are fast to suggest uninformed solutions, students who are medicated but lack a coach or counselor that is consistant and available, students who lack motivation to assume some level of personal responsibility for their own actions, and most of all ..a basically uninformed population surrounding the ADHD child.

I believe that EVERY child that has been diagnosed with ADHD, on medication or not, needs a coach. A confidante. I also believe that every child that has been diagnosed with ADHD that is currently taking medication also should realize that they hold some responsibility as they take that pill each day and recognize that though the medication may assist with some things, there might be side effects that will ALSO flow over in their interpersonal relationships, their perceptions of their environment and any other area. I believe that every parent should research and be disgustingly informed on any aspect of ADHD they can reach, not relying on the suggestions of an overworked classroom teacher to tell thim to get M a new pill because he(or she) is disruptive.

And then there are the little wall-flowers. The unobtrusive ones. The forgotten students. They mind and don't make waves. They are writing sagas in their heads, great epics......during the division lesson. Getting by...not bothering anyone. They always have "great potential" ...but never seem to realize it. Don't overlook those brilliant sparks of humanity who are more fascinated with aesthetics, problem solving and humanity than the banal sentence diagraming that is playing out on the 2-D chalkboard. Dreamland is ever more rich and deep than unimportant information being relayed by a stress-weary, soon to retire teacher. Even those children need an advocate. Medication may or may not help.

Information is important. For parents, for teachers, and for children. Each has a responsiblity. All should share a bit of empathy for the challenges that ADHD might yield.

erinj
04-27-04, 04:46 AM
Beep,
what a wonderful post. Your students are lucky to have you.
It would be wonderful if more professionls (and parents) had your insight.

aquachick_3
04-27-04, 12:52 PM
wow beep............ your school and students are lucky to have you!!!! where exactly is prism and when can i transfer my son to your school ;)

krisp
04-27-04, 02:51 PM
I used to drive a tiny Prizm... ;)

You have so much insight, Beep. I wish you could spend some time with my 5-y.o. and share some of that insight with me. ;)

Garry
04-27-04, 08:22 PM
Impresive post there Beep

I will re-read it later

lindsayok
04-30-04, 04:17 PM
I loved this posting, as a future teacher and a parent of a 8yr.old with AD/HD I agree. Parents, teachers, and administration have to work together for what is best for the student, and you can't forget the ones that are not causing problems they need us too.

Julie
05-13-04, 10:01 PM
Hi Beep,
My grandson who hasn't been diagnozed yet but we are pretty sure he is ADHD. He has so many of the systoms , the easily distracted to not listening. His teach said he would rather sit and play with blocks than do his school work. He is in the first grade and was tested for a learning disability. They said he is smart enough just has problems with his attention span,etc.
He is way behind in reading and language. He does pretty good in math and the other things.
Anyway my daughter is waiting on the daddy's insurance from starting a new job to kick in so she can afford to get him treatment.
The teacher informed us that she was retaining him again to the first grade. I think this is best because he has struggled so hard this year. He has tried and then he gets frustrated and angry. I worry though that what if next year he still has problems. I would like to help him this summer but I'm not sure how. Getting him to pay attention and how and what materials to get. If you could give me any advise I would be thankful.
You are a very caring teacher and I too wish the school had more teachers like you. Thanks

Nucking_Futs
06-07-04, 03:24 PM
Beep I can't tell you how much your post has restored my faith in teacher's. My son has had a very bad year this year and his teacher would not even listen to suggestion's because she felt we were only making excuse's for our child.

How I pray my children are lucky enough to run across even just one teacher as wonderful as you are. ONE person can make a difference in an entire lifetime.