Im wondering if anyone has any good websites on info like ODD or bipolor.

My son is so hatefull and vindictive at times It makes me wonder if there is anything else going on. When he has the huge blow up fits it takes forever for him to calm down and then I hear him in his room saying how he is going to get us and how we will pay etc etc... Ive heard him make a comment about hurting us as well.
I am not scared of him - he is 7 - but I am fearfull of where it might lead and for when he gets 14/15 /16.

The fits seem to be normal for ADHD but the meanness dosent.
He gets mad if someone looks at him funny or touches him at school. Then sometimes he is so nice and freindly you cant belive it.
Any ideas or info I can read on this. His social development is hindered by this as well.

Here are a few links to get you started....

Disorders commonly occurring with ADHD
http://www.chadd.org/fs/fs5.htm

Overview of ODD
http://www.aacap.org/publications/factsfam/72.htm

This is a very long ODD article. It contains a lot of good info.
http://www.klis.com/chandler/pamphlet/oddcd/oddcdpamphlet.htm

Early-onset bipolar disorder
http://www.bpkids.org/learning/about.htm
http://www.conductdisorders.com/ourarticles/bipolar3.htm
http://www.gcbf.org/information/article1.html

There is a whole section that discusses Conduct Disorders here at the ADD Forums: http://www.addforums.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=52

and my website also has a whole section on O.D.D. as well.

Also remember that we have search function here to. There is a button on the top right of each page. Answers to many questions can be found at ADD Forums by searching. :)