Hey, I know this might not be the most appropriate place to ask a question like this, but I can't find any forums that look like a lot of people are on there, so here goes:

OK well I want to leave my boyfriend of 1 month for another guy I met 2 weeks ago who I'm more attracted to physically and mentally who is also going to be moving to Ottawa in August, just like me, while my current boyfriend is going to be in Toronto. The thing is, my current boyfriend thinks we get along wonderfully, and we do, but I can only see us just as friends. I wouldn't do anything behind my boyfriend's back, so I want to get it out in the open that I'm leaving him. It's hard enough to tell him that, but then also to tell him that I'm leaving him for this guy...I just figure I'd rather tell him up front than for him to find out. But how should I tell my boyfriend?? I'm totally clueless about this stuff.

Be upfront and honest with him...and be REALLY CLEAR about what you want. Don't be wishy-washy, that will only confuse him, or make him believe he has another chance with you.

I agree with Big...and also...make sure that he understands that there are no hard feelings so that you may continue to be friends.

Speaking as a guy, there's no point in waffling.

Alternatively... if you aren't confident enough to stand up and tell him... you could fool him into thinking he's dumping you... :D