(for a friend)


Accept the fact that he is not you

Accept the fact that he is not “normal”

Accept the fact that he will never meet your expectations

Accept the fact that your expectations are unrealistic

Accept the fact that you should have gotten to know him better before you committed your life to him

Accept the fact that the problem is half you and not all him

Accept...

I dunno who wrote this, it’s a variation of a rather well known little “story” based on Norse mythology. Google “Rainbow Bridge” is you haven’t heard of it before. Anyways…

Rescuer's Rainbow Bridge

Unlike most days at Rainbow Bridge, this day dawned cold and gray, damp as a swamp and as dismal as could be imagined.

All of the recent arrivals had no idea what to think, as they had never experienced a day like this before. But the animals who had been waiting...

I know why neurotypicals think as they do and why they complain so often – I doubt any will listen but because I have been where they and I have been where their ADD spouses seeing both sides of this issue had given me some insight.


The only way a neurotypical would forget their spouses birthday, or anniversary is if they didn’t care enough to remember. Because they are aware of the passage of time they are normally aware of the date and the day. Few of them can comprehend...

...

I thought I lost a precious friend...tears were a part of the day when I thought of
his missing presence in my life.
now the space that was his is not empty anymore....he filled it and more today...

tears are happy ones now...the precious friend heard my sadness and replaced it with joy ...it just took two words

my two words for a friend are thank-you