Title:
How do NTers experience love?


Body of topic:
I don't mean to offend anyone. I am just asking and honest question trying to understand the NTers in my life and how they experience love.

You see, the NTers who say they love me don't seem to show it very well.

They are constantly nit picking what I do, pointing out my mistakes, badgering me to remember things that aren't important...

It seems like they are constantly...

ugh I am going to stop reading the non-add partner section as well as the parenting!

Every time I read that section, I get this punk song stuck in my head.
It goes:
"You're my victim, oh yeah,
my victim, oh yeah,
I'm good to ya,
but you're my victim oh yeah,
cause you like being one, oh yeah
My victim, oh yeah,
no matter what I do,
its wrong, it hurts you
My victim, oh yeah!"
Or something like that....

reading the parenting section. It really, really upsets me.

waaah my kid plays with the dog and barks, so I send him to his room for being weird

I want to rescue all these people's children and let them run wild and free

you can all hate me now