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Old 08-09-17, 01:19 AM
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Re: Tables Turned

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But now we have the diagnosis and we have just started counseling. She says she wants to fix things and understands ADHD. She clearly wants to try and that’s great.
She said that she wants to try so believe her. She said that she needs space and time so give that to her. She told you what she needs from you and it might not be how you wanted it right now but it has to be this way for a time after years of

I think that you both should ask your marriage counselor for referrals to individual counselors and you both are dealing with a lot but from different places. Both of you need individual healing in addition to the marriage needing to be healed.

Good luck!!!
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