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Old 12-28-17, 02:46 PM
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Re: First time poster seeking comfort/advice/whatever else you can offer

I dated a man once who had Aspergers and he would disappear every once in a while too. I tried my best to be understanding but it was very difficult, especially around the holidays when I wanted to be with him or at least hear from him. He also said he had issues with anxiety and depression and needed to be alone a lot. I really loved him and still care for him as my friend, but I needed more from a romantic relationship. IMO, some people cant "do" relationships...I think its really important to understand and be honest about your own needs. I thought I could handle being ignored, but, even though I knew it wasnt personal, it still hurt too much.
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