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Old 04-15-12, 10:03 AM
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Re: False Memories

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Originally Posted by mad83 View Post
I didn't know where to put this exactly.

Ever since I can remember, I've been creating what I think are false memories. I remember things differently than other people. I used to deny this but studying about it I think that is what has happened.

Two problems:

#1- I have to trust some people to tell me what really happened, like my mom, who is bipolar. I wouldn't trust her with a houseplant. How do I get my memory straight without it being F'ed up?

#2- and this relates back to #1. Some things people say did not happen, others remember DID happen.

It's been screwing with my life. Who is telling the truth and who is not? Some of this crap is quite traumatic.
I can understand how hard this is. I used to daily rack my brains out trying to figure out what happened, why it happened, etc.

My own personal solution: Stop trying to figure out the past. You'll probably never figure out what happened, everyone's memories will be different and they will recollect things not 100% accurately...so it doesn't matter if they are 100% trustworthy, their information could still be incorrect.
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