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Old 11-25-17, 01:58 PM
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Re: I'm so triggered by everything

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Originally Posted by WhiteOwl View Post
I understand all that and think it's good to go slow, but my concern is that we'll be together for awhile and I'll get attached, maybe even fall in love, only to have him flake out on me at some point and not really be able to commit. He said he really likes me so far and wants to do stuff with me and know me more, and I feel the same way.
That exact thing has happened to me and it did hurt a ton, but even if I could go back in time and change things I wouldn't do it any other way. The time we had was great and in the end, while it wasn't a romantic relationship for life, I still got a friend out of it! Not trying would have left me wondering what could have been. So I think you have the right attitude about this, watching out for codependency while still giving it a shot.
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