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Old 10-16-17, 07:50 PM
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Re: Terrified to live with my ADHD spouse again..

I think you have to ask yourself, whether or not you truly love him. If so, you have to be willing to take him as he is - faults and all. If he is willing to change and seek help, great! However, if he isn't ready yet, you will have to determine if you love him enough to hold onto your relationship (and if it is worth keeping). It sounds like he could be depressed as well. Btw, medication helps, but it doesn't cure the disease. It will still always be a struggle for the both of you. It will take a lot of patience, excellent communication, compromise empathy to make this work.
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