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Old 04-18-17, 08:21 AM
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Re: Sex and love addiction part 2

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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
On this one point I think its fair to say that because solitary is punishment, that is a difference. I dont think you should look at your recovery as punishment.
Not being able to engage in sex and relationships, having to ignore those feelings, it does feel like a punishment to be honest. I just don't know what to do. With the alcohol after a few months of sobriety the cravings diminished. In my SLA they don't. And that makes me think that things will never change.
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