What type of women do you tend to end up with?

[Fraser_0762]

I've never really had someone that i'd consider to have been a girlfriend.

The first girl I ever met in person that I seemed to have the serious hots for was a girl with the worst ADHD i've probably ever witnessed in person.

[Rebelyell]

I wanna end up w a woman who loves me for me,i dont care if shes rich,poor dominant shy what ever as long as shes nice to me

[Mirrored]

I tend to end up with quirky girls that are organized/cleaning types and that have more people-smarts then book-smarts. Which works out really well for me most of the time.

Usually these girls are drawn to me because I take them on adventures and add a sense of spontaneity and romance to their life that they were missing prior. In return, they help me stay organized and keep me in focus on what I am doing.

I don't think I could ever end up with another person with ADHD, simply because their strengths are things I already have covered and it would leave my weaknesses uncompensated for-- we would have an amazing and intense relationship, but dishes would pile up, chores and tasks would go undone, and the whole thing would be unsustainable.

[Fraser_0762]

Originally Posted by Rebelyell

I wanna end up w a woman who loves me for me,i dont care if shes rich,poor dominant shy what ever as long as shes nice to me

Dominant women can be extremely nice....

[itsmrawesome123]

well, i'm only 16 and i've had like 6 girlfriends already. so, that's just as of now. i don't know what i'll be like with women in the real world when i'm say at least 19 or 21. out of the girlfriends i had the longest relationship was about 3 months lol. i had at least 3 really attractive ones, but they weren't of the highest intelligence. i had one who was really smart but she was a bit promiscuous, haha. if i am ever to settle down, in which i hope i do, she needs to be smart( to be able to understand/ accept my ADHD), half decently attractive, patient, caring and well yeah, i'm really hoping i meet that person.

[Conman]

since im rushing and hopefully pledging to a frat, im pretty sure ill be ending up with quite a few girls who are *****

and i mean that in the least offensive way. but there are some truths about greek life, and that tends to be an accurate one unfortunately.

probably wont get into a serious relationship til after college, like medschool time for me

[talljonathan]

I tend to be attracted to older, independent, intelligent, and creative women. I'm 25 and I rarely find women in their 20s I connect.

[mctavish23]

This should be a poll... AND...include at what stage of your life

Just sayin...


u r welcome

[Rebelyell]

just had a friend tonite tell me if I get to 47 w out sex or a gf game over give it up

[Rebelyell]

OH well theres always the last chance qualifer... a Hooker

[Cedric88]

I tend to fall for the "I could save/change her" type of woman, with all the drama that goes with it

I actually know that my best chances are with an extravert woman. Actually introverts and extraverts go very well together.

I've wasted a lot of energy on "the quiet ones" because often it starts great, but I actually start to hate people that are quiet and needs constantly triggers to start saying/do things. It makes me really tired.

To me: social, engaged girl with lots of character that can handle an introvert and doesn't mind having to push me to do stuff together. Often "the wild one" from the group.

[vanslem6]

Originally Posted by TheChemicals

intelligent and extroverted women....the things i am not, and i dont look for them...

Same. The girls that seek me out, which happen to be the ones I dislike the most. I am easily intimidated, so I am not at all attracted to assertive ladies.

[beigaleh]

I dump 90% of the women i date, and when i actually like somone i get nervous and it usually doesnt work out. but the women i like are definitely the crazy ones

[mikeyboy22]

I tend to like smart, nerdy women. Also in the words of Steve Martin in My Blue Heaven I like them "a little dirty"

Don't get me wrong, I dated a lot of different women back before I was married, and pretty much if she was willing, I was willing. Its the afterwards and the social interaction that makes me want to go long term.

Also she needs to be a little dominate, to keep me in line. If my wife was a submissive, I would be bankrupt the family and I be regularly cheating, or at least doing something stupid. If she was over the top dominate, I would feel suffocated and leave.

The sex issue comes into play a lot with me. I don't know if its an ADD thing, but I need it often. The only difference between me at 17 and me at 42 is I have less stamina and more aches and pains. I still think about it constantly. I need a woman that enjoys sex and romance. Its easy when you are in your teens and 20's to find a woman like that, but when your married in your 30's,40's and beyond its gets harder. Some middle age women really start to tune out to the whole romance and sex thing, especially when they have kids.

The nerdy girl thing is because I want a woman who is OK with acting like a kid, and having fun once in a while.

[of_two_minds]

The type that are attracted to me are organized, mature, assertive, with strong mothering instincts. The type I'm attracted to are: whoever is the best looking and will put up with me.

But I'm married, so it's a moot point.