Things that seem to really bother you?

[hoolio]

Originally Posted by JoVaow

I have to have everything look just right for example all my movies must be alphabetical order and the dvd inside must be perfectly placed, but then I dont wanna do it anymore and the more and more I put it off the more it ****** me off then I snap and have to do again but never finish or keep it in order drives me crazy!!!!

Originally Posted by Repton

The same thing bothers me too, the more organised things are around me the better I feel, but I can't keep things organised for very long so I end up in a rage for the same reasons

That is a big one for me as well, my canned food cupboard looks like a supermarket shelf, otherwise...I start making something for supper thinking I have all the stuff...but don't....or end up with 28 of something because I keep thinking I don't have it!

But even worse is when people just HAVE to make fun of me for it, or mess with it JUST to annoy me (usually the same people who get frustrated when I am not organized...go figure!).

Originally Posted by kelsiemay77

Also, repetitive noises drive me up a wall. Whistling, car alarms, screaming kids, you name it. My boyfriend gets so mad at me when I complain about it too which makes it even worse, lol. A week ago we were on a hike, and these two guys were on the trail behind us one of them would NOT stop whistling some random song and I was ready to turn around and rip him a new one!

Ticking clocks, dripping faucets, people who "click" their pens constantly...I am completely incapable of ignoring these things once I hear them. It is literally torture for me... and yet, I can be quite oblivious at other times and not even notice them...which apparently drives the people around me crazy (usually the same ones who say "can't you hear that?" then get annoyed when I am going insane because NOW I do hear it and its making me crazy! Thanks, thanks a lot! lol)

Originally Posted by PookDo

People that talk really slow or cant get to a point fast enough. Screaming kids. People that say " like " every other word or people that talk like intellectually challenged valley girls. People that drive slow or stand in my way.I just notcied all the things that bother me have to do with other people. I think I'm just overwhelmed by other people so much. I often wish I could move to a quieter more open area with less people.

I tend to drive, move, speak and think very quickly so slooooowwwww people drive me insane!! I can't keep my mind on what you are saying if you take too long to say it!

Originally Posted by Spacemaster

*People that are easily offended. For example, "How dare you say that, my sister-in-law's, brother's girlfriend's daughter has problems with fecal impaction, shame on you for joking about that!"

I tend to be more "logical" than "emotional" so people who get all worked up about things that seem trivial or don't even directly affect them....just baffles me...it really does...I just cannot understand it at all.

Originally Posted by PookDo

being put on speaker phone

I hate that!! I called to speak to YOU not everyone who just happens to be there...if you have company or whatever, its ok...just call me back later!

[Verile]

My ADHD.

People who share strong political or moral opinions unsolicited, especially by bumper sticker; I have to resist the urge to slash their tires just to teach them there are consequences for being brazenly outspoken.

Losing points on a math question for not showing my work despite a correct answer.

Firefly and Better Off Ted were canceled prematurely.

Breath of Fire has not had a sequel for a decade.

[JoVaow]

Really liking this site its amazing how much every person with adhd has in common with everyday things and yet theres still people who dont believe there is such a thing,.that really bothers me stop making excuses you just have to try harder and focus more and you can do it. I just want to punch them in the face you really think we want this disorder and pretty much have to be dependent on meds just to make it through our daily lives. So insulting but they never realize it.

[Spacemaster]

*calling any business, particularly the cell phone company, when they've F'd up your bill!

* The fact that 3 Doors Down made it onto the classic rock radio station. Sorry if anyone likes them, but what a horrid band, and hardly classic rock. Classic rock to me is Pink Floyd, Queen, Styx, Fleetwood Mac, etc.

*ear buds, of any kind, for any music playing system. They never ever fit correctly, they fall out, and sometimes the hard plastic ones hurt my ear cartilage.

*Movies with loud sound effects and quiet dialogue

[Verile]

Originally Posted by Spacemaster

*ear buds, of any kind, for any music playing system. They never ever fit correctly, they fall out, and sometimes the hard plastic ones hurt my ear cartilage.

Foam tips

[stef]

if i want to see any champion's league soccer this year i have to pay 11€ extra per month in addition to our cable. some company from qatar bought the rights that channel 1 had.
as it is half of the games were on a cable channel we dont have.

[SquarePeg]

ha ha I am really enjoying this post, my main things are
screaming kids (even though I have 2 they never screamed in public) (much!!)
people talking loudly on their mobile phones in the library or quiet places, like they are so important
big companies that can´t use their f***ing common sense, I mean if it´s not on their pathetic little script it can´t be done. What happened to common sense.

I have a case with a big internet selling company where I paid for something second hand and the seller emailed me to say that it was broken so she wouldn´t be sending it and would refund me.

Well two weeks later no refund so I try to open a case, but oh no I have to give her a chance to send the item. They had a copy of her email to me, I mean what part of "I´m not going to send the item it´s broken" leads them to believe that she is going to send it?

People that touch my dogs after asking "does it bite" and me saying "yes he might, so please don´t touch him".

canned laughter. once I become aware of it I can´t stop focusing on it.

[Bethylphenidate]

Originally Posted by Rebelyell

When I ask a question and some one says I dont know what to really tell you.What in the hell is that suppose to mean.Tell me how you feel or the truth or what you would do.

Agreed! Even more so, I haaate when an exchange goes something like this:

"What's wrong?"
"Ehh, just kinda down 'cause I lost my job."
"Oh, I don't know what to tell you." (Or "Sorry, can't help ya there.")

...Uhhh... I wasn't asking for advice or help. I would've said "Nothing," but I answered 'cause I thought you might be offering a listening ear. "I hope your situation improves" would have sufficed.

Aaaand...

People...

• Who don't know when to shut up when I am clearly focusing on something that requires my undivided attention! (Which, let's face it, is a rarity.) And this is coming from Ms. Loudmouth Motormouth herself. But I know how to take a hint.
• (Men) who can't take a hint. Actually, no... not taking a hint is one thing. Those who ignore my straightforward rejections. It's disrespectful and borderline predatory....
• Who tell me "You need to dye your hair again!" No, I don't. That's the exact opposite of what I need to do. I dyed it "bloody raspberry" red last year, and I'm purposely not dying it so that I can finally go back to my natural blonde. The only way to break this hair dying cycle is by not dying it anymore....
• Who can dish it... but can't take it.

And some random stuff, such as...

• Sleeping with my hair down.
• My bare knees touching when I'm sleeping. In the summer, when I'm wearing shorts and I don't need a blanket, well, I still need to at least put a sheet in between my knees.
• Wearing a bra, the second I get in the house. (Unless there's company. )

[Rebelyell]

NO 1 to talk to the last 2 days I feel like Im going to go crazy

[Fuzzy12]

electronic devices that are supposed to make your life easier but just annoy the hell out of me by giving up on me at the most inopportune moment.

[Rebelyell]

it was a question on dating and a girl I met on a website but dont know if she is really interested in me.When I text or call her she responds but if I dont she hasnt gone out of her way to respond back and deletes all the messages ive sent her?.I dont want to waste my time getting the royal rn around,so I asked a friend and I got that answer and he said just roll w the punches.This is a guy that gets women like carters got liver pills.I suck at dating not to get off topic figure I ask a friend,so much for that **** **** bs.

[Bethylphenidate]

Originally Posted by Rebelyell

This is a guy that gets women like carters got liver pills.I suck at dating not to get off topic figure I ask a friend,so much for that **** **** bs.

LOL @ the first sentence. And... I'm strangely curious what those stars mean. I am sitting here trying to decipher them....

"Roll with the punches" is good advice, though... or better yet, stop contacting her entirely. Deleting messages combined with "only speaking when spoken to" sounds like a roundabout way of saying "I'm not interested." I can't tell you exactly what you might be doing to adversely affect your chances at getting dates but... that's because I don't know enough about you. I can understand why you'd be ****** off, though, because a friend should know you a little bit better, and therefore able to give you some insight on that. I can tell you that being persistent won't pique a woman's interest if she isn't already interested; it will make it worse, if anything. Besides, it's a waste of your time.

...just to keep this on-topic...

It bothers me when people are so CONFIDENT that they are right about something... and when you try to (politely) tell them that they are wrong and provide them with the correct information, they roar with laughter. Then, when you prove them wrong (at this point, not so nicely because they just mocked and belittled you), they either get ****** OFF, or they say, "Oh, whatever, why are you making a big deal out of it? Who cares?"

[PookDo]

Being told I need to try harder.
People that say the same crap over and over again.

[PookDo]

The **** that passes for popular music .I have no idea how people watch reality shows. Gives me a migraine

[PookDo]

The fact the MTV at least in America still calls itself MTV