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Old 02-26-18, 02:29 PM
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Am I safe on here

Does anyone mean me harm?
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Re: Safety

I can't think of anyone on this forum who doesn't like you, and respect you.

Here's some advice I've read that may be worth trying that can help you put
things in perspective:

If you get depressed from the little voice in your head saying awful things to you,
or nagging you about whatever, try giving that voice a face ...
maybe the face of a politician that seems to lie about everything.

Would you listen to that voice if it were coming from that politician's mouth?
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Re: Safety

seeing his face would give me nightmares for the next 10 years

Maybe he's remote controlling Ebony to be poorly for some reason best known to himself

she had another suspected fit this morning, didn't recognise me or Tigger when I woke up it was already finished and she's not steady on her paws
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Old 02-26-18, 04:15 PM
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Re: Safety

Or maybe batfart ratbreath ex is making her have her fits, remote controlling her
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Re: Safety

Ebony's abusers are scummy scumbags
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Re: Safety

My ex is remote controlling Ebony's asthma and her suspected fits to kill her
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Re: Safety

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My ex is remote controlling Ebony's asthma and her suspected fits to kill her
I don't believe for a moment that BatFart RatBreath has the focus or control
to be able to affect a creature that's as smart as a cat.
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Re: Safety

maybe he thinks if he kills her I'll go back to him
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Re: Safety

I will never go back to ratface batfartbreath
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Re: Safety

He is as scummy as Ebony's scummy scumbag abusers
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Re: Safety

I don't think anyone here means you harm. Physically or emotionally.
It's possible that some people might not like you? I can't imagine who...but I do know that not everyone can like us. Like me for example...I just got a personality and sense of humor that can drive some people nutters lol. And I acknowledge that and accept it and move on from those people. There's plenty of others who DO like me.

If there are people you feel don't like you here...please don't let them hold you back or push you away. Not everyone can love my Mid-Mids...and that's okay! Just move right past them and focus on all those that DO love my Mid-Mids!

If your worry has nothing to do with the above...
Well I'm not sure what to tell you I'm not sure why you feel unsafe here.
I think this site has enough loving/caring/supportive people that it's a pretty darned safe place to be as far as opening up and being honest goes.

Personally I think you're safe. I've not seen anyone try to harm you here, and that you are liked by everyone. Like I said there might be someone out there on the forums that doesn't like you...but if there is, I certainly wouldn't know. Everyone seems to love you and enjoy your existence on these forums.

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p.s.

ratface batfartbreath can go see himself to the nearest toilet and flush himself down it!
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Remember this and say it over and over if you have to: "What other people think of me is none of my business. Nobody can control me, I have control over what I say, do think and my actions. I will not allow anyone to hurt me because I am strong and have been through enough sh*t to know how not to put up with it. I am not a coward." A coward feels fear and hides. I have courage. Courage means you feel fear--but work your way through it anyway.
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You are safe here. Even ratface can't hurt you or ebony or Tigger. Hope ebony feels better soon.
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