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Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

Or is it a nonsense label the professionals stick on you just for something to say you have "wrong" with you and say there's no cure so bye bye we can't do anything for you with that? (they gave me an OCPD diagnosis as one of the things I apparently have wrong with me and they said when they diagnosed me there's no cure and pretty much left me to get on with it)
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

There are a lot of problems with personality disorders as a category. The DSM-5 changed things in the US so they're axis-1 disorders instead of axis-2, which is a good change, although I am not sure what that will mean - if anything - for people diagnosed with PDs.

Several of the PD diagnoses are valid, some are questionable, and the idea that they're untreatable is probably false. BPD, for example, is quite treatable. OCPD can be treated with cognitive behavioral therapy, medication, and relaxation training.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

So it's just in the UK that they're all like "it's untreatable off you go blah blah"? Mental health help in the UK is utter crap.
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Old 07-13-16, 06:38 PM
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

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So it's just in the UK that they're all like "it's untreatable off you go blah blah"? Mental health help in the UK is utter crap.
It's not just in the UK, no. There are professionals who do treat it and professionals who act like it's not treatable at all, but that's old dogma.
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It's not just in the UK, no. There are professionals who do treat it and professionals who act like it's not treatable at all, but that's old dogma.
So the professionals here and both places I used to live are talking out of their backsides

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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

Basically.

If you can find someone who does CBT they can probably help you with your symptoms. If they treat your symptoms instead of your diagnosis, that is.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

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So it's just in the UK that they're all like "it's untreatable off you go blah blah"? Mental health help in the UK is utter crap.
Funnily enough I think if you look up personality disorders on the nhs websites it does list ways of treating them through therapy like dbt or meds like anti depressants.


Uggh...the ignorance of some professionals makes me just so angry. I mean they should know at least as much as the nhs Web pages shouldn't they? ??

http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Persona...Treatment.aspx

( not sure if they specifically mention ocpd though)
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

If they focus on your diagnosis they might just be all "No treatment works" which is not helpful.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

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So it's just in the UK that they're all like "it's untreatable off you go blah blah"? Mental health help in the UK is utter crap.
Maybe if you pursued it a bit more aggressively, some type of help could be offered to you. I don't really know, but if you continue making appointments and keep on about your struggles possibly?
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

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So it's just in the UK that they're all like "it's untreatable off you go blah blah"? Mental health help in the UK is utter crap.
Sure sounds like it. But there's some truth to it as personality in general is so hard to change. I think you can never totally change your personality, you are who you are. But you can modify it and learn to integrate other opposing traits to balance your personality. And in the case of personality disorder, you can learn to bring your personality style to the normal level of adjustment, i.e. there are many "normal" OCDPs. These things are tremendously hard work, though, and it probably requires more than a lifetime to fully change and undo the effects of personality disorder, but it doesn't mean people can't move in the direction of health.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

That's part of the problem - the idea that personality disorders are so difficult to treat - which is not true, at least not for all of them. OCPD is fairly treatable.

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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

I mean there's a reason personality disorders are no longer axis 2.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

I still chuckle (albeit a bit angrily) when I think of how perplexed the psych docs seemed to be with my supposed pd that they couldn't seem to nail down and ever specify, yet they continually set aside and ignored all of the trauma related info openly shared with them, and never discussed ptsd, while they steadily threw a slew of meds my way for depression, anxiety, adhd, and insomnia.

Perhaps I have a buffet variety. A little bit of everything all rolled into one. Ha! Imagine that. Their ideas and methods of treating all of their various diagnoses of me were damaging enough to make me seek relief elsewhere, luckily. Their widespread and perceived incompetence ended up being the silver lining to my ongoing and worsening clouds of misery, repeatedly.

Not sure what that means in the grand scheme of things as far as opinions go, be it professional or otherwise, but I sure feel more relief on this particular path, more so than I've ever felt in pursuit of wellness via most typical means, so I'll stick with it, until it no longer works, lol, then I'll figure it out again, and again, and again, with any luck, quite painfully, I'm sure, and with or without their labeling guesstimations.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

I feel like psychiatric diagnostic labels are pretty flaky in general (i.e. they're all real problems, but the line drawn between one disorder and another doesn't always make sense), and I suspect that it's even worse for personality disorders.

It seems like executive dysfunction (e.g. ADHD, ASD) + trauma + associated anxiety would almost certainly make you end up with pretty much the exact set of traits of OCPD. (So would ADHD + OCD.) The diagnostic criteria requires that the problem isn't due to another health problem, but will they count mental health problems for that?

A key trait of PDs (and what separates OCPD from OCD) is that they are usually supposed to be ego-syntonic, meaning the patient considers them correct and healthy. That would explain why it's considered hard to treat: it's usually not feasible to treat something the patient doesn't want treatment for! But if you're actually looking for treatment, that wouldn't apply to you. Even if OCPD is still a good diagnosis for you in spite of it being ego-dystonic, it means you've got a more treatable variant of OCPD, and they should acknowledge that.

I found this from Wikipedia interesting:

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There are considerable similarities and overlap between Asperger's syndrome and OCPD,[19] such as list-making, inflexible adherence to rules, and obsessive aspects of Asperger's syndrome, though the former may be distinguished from OCPD especially regarding affective behaviors, worse social skills, difficulties with Theory of Mind and intense intellectual interests e.g. an ability to recall every aspect of a hobby.[20] A 2009 study involving adult autistic people found that 40% of those diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome met the diagnostic requirements for a co-morbid OCPD diagnosis.[21]
I like how the parts that distinguish AS from OCPD are also what distinguish AS from ADHD. Pretty sure inflexible adherence to rules and especially list-making are related to executive dysfunction. I wonder what percentage of people with primarily inattentive ADHD meet the requirements for a co-morbid OCPD diagnosis.

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It's true that personality is hard to change, but how do the diagnosticians distinguish that a problem is part of the patient's personality and not from a normal mental disorder? Especially considering how often mental health professionals get weird interpretations about a patient's behavior and opinions.
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Re: Does "personality disorders" actually mean anything?

It's questionable whether personality disorders actually genuinely reflect one's personality as opposed to something else.

The "ego-syntonic" categorization is arbitrary as it seems to me that a lot of people I've dealt with who are labeled with personality disorders are not ego-syntonic at all. That doesn't necessarily mean a misdiagnosis, but I think it points toward personality disorders not being what psychology has been claiming they are for decades.
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